Sent a naughty pic and it went wrong! AIBU?

[OhMygodddd]

Name changed for this, I think I might have humiliated myself! 🤦‍♀️

So I sent a suggestive photo to my fwb, however it is still all new, 1 month and we’ve only hooked up 3 times so far. The photo was from the knees down, wearing black high heels and a lacy thong hanging of the end of one of my heels. His response was “is that you?”

Ouch! Not the reaction I though I was going to get if I’m honest and I’m feeling a little embarrassed and rather awkward now.
I said it was me, it’s not going to be someone else is it with a laughing emoji , and he just sent the laughing emoji back… would you find that response humiliating? I think I need a new fwb already 🤦‍♀️

@RicherThanYew

Is he usually a dumbass? I would have responded "No it's my mum, obviously".

“No, it’s your mum”

Block and delete! Next please…

If it was me and I was feeling confident and sexy I would probably take it as him being like 'wow that's sexy is that really you', like he can't believe how sexy someone he's effing is... and id follow it up with some dirty talk seeing as you were in the mood and trying to lure him in... maybe say" yes would you like more..." and judge his response... don't be offended if its not his thing... you could always add on "or would you rather use your imagination?" So he can say politely, some people just aren't, although most men annoyingly ask for pics. Soooo annoying.
If I was not feeling great about myself and a bit insecure I would probably have reacted in the same way you have, but what you need to do now is just message with "I won't send anymore unless requested, I just felt like sharing a little something sexy ..."
Then you can judge his response as to whether he found it hot or not and wishes to receive any more pics.
Honestly some of the replies saying it's weird etc, everyone is different in the bedroom (or out of it!), please don't put the op down for feeling good about herself and sending a suggestive picture to a fb surely that's what it's all about isn't it , having fun and being sexy! Use him to get your confidence up and if he's going to be so dull find someone exciting! My ex fb would have ... well...I can't write on here but been very excited by the stilettos alone let alone the thong, I think it's pretty sexy myself!! Do your thing and don't let anyone make you feel anything less than hot as f, you are here for a good time too remember that, it's not just about him. So if he doesn't appreciate it, ah well, someone else will! Xxx

Yeah I’d be expecting a better reply.. or at least some kind of ‘can’t wait to see that in real life’ or something.
He sounds flakey and a bit boring!!
I’d just let him do a bit of chasing for a bit.

I love how early some of the replies were going "dump him". It seems some people don't like seeing someone relatively content. He was probably slightly nonplussed. He would have known who it was from if he had her number in his phone. As others have said, don't overthink the reaction of someone probably taken by surprise