@frazzledasarock
He’s probably not bringing up the inheritance as he has absolutely no way to justify you changing your will and leaving your flat to him instead of your god-daughter without looking completely grabby.
And this is exactly why he's harping on about selling.
If you sell, and do what he wants with your money, you can't then leave the flat to the goddaughter, but he will get the benefit of the money instead. He's playing a long game.
My ex was exactly like this, and bled me dry of any money I got, including a redundancy payment.
I would take a good look at this relationship, I think his attitude towards money will get worse.
I would be very wary of your partner. Is he talking lots about what “we” could do with his savings or is it just your flat he’s focussed on?
I had that thought, too. It became noticeable that my ex was focussing on any money I had while keeping his savings for himself, and this guy sounds very like my ex.
The OP has known him at least three years and she still calles him "extremely greedy" I'd say that the4 chances of change now are slim and none.
From bitter experience, yes.
He wants the money to make home improvements but with the view that it’ll make our property worth more. And he’s never suggested using any of his savings for this.
Aha, thought so. Exactly like my ex.
I thought I loved my ex. I thought he loved me. He turned out to be an abusive dick who valued my money more than me.
OP, I've seen that you're not interested in marrying. Good for you. You are actually in a secure position, don't let him persuade you to anything with the money you're not fully onboard with.
When you stick to your guns in saying 50/50 for any renovations, I wouldn't be surprised if he drops the idea for now.
Don't bother showing him this thread. Keep this as your safe space because showing threads often backfires as the bloke just accuses us of being bitter and twisted, or words to that effect. They don't like being called out.