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AIBU?

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To think fully grown men shouldn't need to pee in the street

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Madmaxxy · 16/02/2022 13:36

I've just had the joy of looking out of my front room window to see a man had pulled his car up (into private spaces that are designated for the flats on our road) and relieved himself into the space. I saw everything

For context we are not rural! It's a long residential road that runs parallel to a main road, which is opposite the centre of town. Busy with cars and pedestrians, and opposite a long row of houses like mine. This was also less than a metre from the pavement, so a poor unsuspecting pedestrian would behave got an eyeful.
I also know that that space belongs to a family with three young children and he's just filled it with his piss in broad daylight.
So AIBU to think a fully grown man should at least be able to hold it until they get to a McDonald's or something.

OP posts:
WeaverofWords · 18/02/2022 20:33

@CourtRand

Where else is he meant to go?
Toilet, like everyone else, or he can wear a pad if he has an incontinence problem.
TrashyPanda · 18/02/2022 23:34

@CourtRand

Where else is he meant to go?
He holds on till he finds a loo, just like the rest of us do.

It’s not hard to work out.

Well done on reporting the filthy pisser, OP.

LaBellina · 19/02/2022 01:09

@Madmaxxy

So if anyone is still following this post (thank you to the majority of you talking sense!) I did report to the police with the reg number of the car. The good news is they've logged it as a crime (exposure) the bad news is that the car is registered and Insured to a female so it's not an easy 'send them a fine' type thing (or whatever the punishment would be I'm not sure). I'm guessing he was driving uninsured in her car though so maybe there will be some consequence via that, who knows.
Well done op. Even if they can’t fine him his female partner / owner of the car might get a letter from the police / a visit. I wouldn’t be too impressed about this behavior. And if this thread is any indication many other women won’t be either.
MrsDeaconClaybourne · 19/02/2022 08:34

@Madmaxxy

So if anyone is still following this post (thank you to the majority of you talking sense!) I did report to the police with the reg number of the car. The good news is they've logged it as a crime (exposure) the bad news is that the car is registered and Insured to a female so it's not an easy 'send them a fine' type thing (or whatever the punishment would be I'm not sure). I'm guessing he was driving uninsured in her car though so maybe there will be some consequence via that, who knows.
Good for you Mad more calling out of this behaviour definitely needed.

My DM once came out of visiting DSDad in hospital to find some bloke peeing between his and her car. WAY before covid restrictions so definitely would have been able to use one in the hospital. Luckily she was with friend and they are both equally confident and outspoken so called him out!

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