... to be disappointed at 25th Wedding Anniv Gift from DH?

[OhhMeOhhMy]

... A 2 day stay at a really really nice hotel/spa with highly rated restaurant for me and my DSis.

First world problems I know :(

But I still feel unhappy enough about to NC, and make a post. On the positive side I have mentioned wanting to go there in the past. I do get on with my DSis (we're close, but she is not my best friend)

Don't know what I was expecting really, but not this!

AIBU?

Your initial post is less than half the story.

You are an unbelievably ungrateful and unpleasant person. Your husband sounds kind and thoughtful and deserves better than you.

He listened about where you wanted to go , booking you a particular place you had spoken about , so not unthoughtful. He maybe thought you would like it more with female company (my DH would probably think the same) .

Wishing I had a problem like the OP. I initially thought that maybe her DH was trying to get her out of the way on their anniversary weekend so he could go on a drinking weekend with his mates. Even then I would have been glad of the spa weekend!!

@Aprilx

Your initial post is less than half the story.

You are an unbelievably ungrateful and unpleasant person. Your husband sounds kind and thoughtful and deserves better than you.

Bloody hell! Bit harsh.

Yes I did divorce him when he started saying he would leave me if I didn't join in the the lifestyle (BDSM) and go to swinging clubs with him.
I was happy enough for him to do that stuff on his own, I'm not possessive in that way but people who try and force me to do things I don't want to will get dumped.