Was this a dodgy massage?!

[Dodgyornotdodgy]

I swear I am NOT a troll - MNHQ can confirm I am a long time poster who has NC. I would particularly like the opinions of masseuses/masseurs but anyone really.

I get massages all the time and this has never happened before.

Masseur (so male - not a problem, have masseurs fairly often too. Not sexist and not assuming all men are pervs).

During the leg portion of my massage he crossed my leg over and massaged the bottom of my thigh. The bottom of my thigh was over my vulva. It was extremely arousing, obviously. I didn’t really know what to say - he did it on both sides.

I guess my AIBU is - AIBU to think this was deliberate and he knows what he is doing?! Or am I just quite sex starved and bizarre?

I realise people will come on being like why didn’t you say anything but 1) I wasn’t really sure if he was doing anything on purpose ajd 2) to be honest it was pleasant!

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@Kitfish

Hi Op. I hear you - and unlike some on here I won't take the piss. I once had a massage where teh (male) masseure put his fingers inside my vagina while continuing to massage. I was too embarrassed to say anything but - looking back - I did feel quite violated by this.

Jeez... This is sexual assault

I am happy with a masseur and I’m happy with the disposable knickers etc because I think after you’ve hit a certain number of massages you do become desensitised to the process and see your body for that period of time as a slab of meat that needs working on! I have no problem having someone doing my glutes or pulling the knickers lower and all those “normal” things I think feel a bit odd when you first have a massage as you aren’t used to them.

But this was something else. And some of the posts on here with what others have experienced are truly shocking/no room for misinterpretation!

What have the hotel said when you contacted them?

Thanks for letting them know and they are looking into it!

What did @Yuckypretty say?

Any update from the hotel?

That doesn't sound like an accident, in all the massages I've had no one has ever used that position. I have enjoyed intentional sensual massage so no prude but always with consent, I would not appreciate someone doing that.