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I’m so upset about an old snowsuit, tell me to get a grip.

261 replies

GarethKeenanInvestigates · 05/01/2022 17:41

My snowsuit from when I was a baby 42 years ago has been worn by my 3 children too, from my 19 year old down to my 17 month old who was still wearing it. I caught a seam on something last week and it ripped.

My mother in law is great at sewing and fixing things, dh asked if she could fix the seam.

He went there at lunch to pick something up and she handed him a new snowsuit she had bought for dd as she had chucked mine in the bin as it was old and she thought she would replace it Sad

I’m not angry at her at all. It was a 42 year old mothercare snowsuit that’s been through 4 children (it was still in good condition though and quite retro and cool). She doesn’t know it was
sentimental to me, We should have said not to throw it if she couldn’t fix it.

To anyone else it was a bit of old shit but it’s was one of the only things I had left. My mum died when I was little, my dad is now 85 and in a care home with dementia, we’ve totally lost him
now, who he was has gone. At the start of his dementia, he started chucking away so much stuff and I didn’t know. So many family photos, videos all gone.

He’d always kept that snowsuit though as my mum bought it the day she found out she was pregnant with me, and he remembered laughing at her because she had bought it in 1 year old size rather than newborn because she was in such an excited flap on the way home from the dr. He loved seeing my older two in it. My littlest dd, he was too far gone to even register.

Plus, I had it in my head that if I was ever l lucky enough to have a grandchild one day, I’d be that annoying gran who passed it down.

I need to get a bloody grip, don’t I. It’s a fucking snowsuit, not a royal christening gown.

OP posts:
GarethKeenanInvestigates · 06/01/2022 17:01

Just thought I’d update you all on some good news Smile

My eldest was helping FIL clear out his garage today, they were taking excess rubbish bags to the tip first that wouldn’t fit in the black bin after xmas.

ds asked if there was any chance his old red coat was in there as I was a bit upset that I’d lost it. It was Grin that black bag last weekend was one too many for the wheelie bin.

I was always pissed off that PIL refused to recycle anything and put it all in the wheelie bin/tip, but it worked out in my favour this time.

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LondonWolf · 06/01/2022 17:04

I’d be gutted. Sorry OP Sad

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 06/01/2022 17:06

Hang on, I think you’ve missed a word or two, does this mean you’ve found it?

GarethKeenanInvestigates · 06/01/2022 17:07

@IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads

Hang on, I think you’ve missed a word or two, does this mean you’ve found it?
Yes!

Sorry should have said, ds brought it home.

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DixieSun · 06/01/2022 17:09

Oh that's MARVELLOUS news. You were so kind to your MIL not mentioning it too, and although it was obviously really special you didn't want to upset her.

I'm really pleased for you.

SingleHandSue · 06/01/2022 17:09

Yay!!! Fantastic news op! I was a bit teary reading this yesterday so I’m so happy for you

diddl · 06/01/2022 17:12

That's amazing.

Hope that you can get it repaired!

HikingforScenery · 06/01/2022 17:14

That’s brilliant!

kittensinthekitchen · 06/01/2022 17:17

Oh thats fantastic news! Are you going to share its story with your MIL now or not bother?

Here's to many more years of use ❤

MogsBestestFurball · 06/01/2022 17:20

That's a lovely story and I'm sorry it's gone 🙁 You don't need to get a grip. DD has DH's childhood bear, it is a mangy looking old thing but passing on something from his own childhood to DD has been really meaningful to DH, particularly as his parents are gone.

Nothingfree · 06/01/2022 17:25

That's not good OP your a better person than me I would be so angry.

SirVixofVixHall · 06/01/2022 17:25

Hurrah OP ! I am so delighted for you that i started to well up with tears.

Hugasauras · 06/01/2022 17:26

Yaaaaaay!!!!

GarethKeenanInvestigates · 06/01/2022 17:28

@kittensinthekitchen

Oh thats fantastic news! Are you going to share its story with your MIL now or not bother?

Here's to many more years of use ❤

I don’t think so.

If I was MIL, I’d feel awful if someone told me that afterwards.

It’s back now, that’s all that matters. I’ll give it a clean and find someone to pay to fix it up.

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Bethany7 · 06/01/2022 17:30

Am sorry O.P.
I do understand and although I'm sure your mother in law just wasn't thinking it is a shame because the fact it was so old would often mean it is sentimental.
I would get any photos of Your children in it in nice photo frames and maybe make a little collage of all the photos of whoever is wearing it together in a frame.

MarshaBradyo · 06/01/2022 17:31

About to say that’s so sad but really pleased you got it back

Oblomov22 · 06/01/2022 17:32

I'm sorry for you. I think people don't understand how sentimental a thing may be. And no she shouldn't have thrown it out, she shouldn't even need to be told, it's blatantly obvious.

Purpl · 06/01/2022 17:37

I’d be sad too. Sending you big hugs. Good idea about photo frame of you all wearing it though. Nice collage 💝

Hugasauras · 06/01/2022 17:43

Read the updates before posting! Grin

WaltzingTilda · 06/01/2022 17:44

I am a bit confused as you mention a red coat. Did you get your snowsuit back op?

GarethKeenanInvestigates · 06/01/2022 17:46

@WaltzingTilda

I am a bit confused as you mention a red coat. Did you get your snowsuit back op?
Yes, sorry - ds called it his old red coat.

It’s the snowsuit.

I typed the update hurriedly.

OP posts:
GarethKeenanInvestigates · 06/01/2022 17:47

@Hugasauras

Read the updates before posting! Grin
I’ve done the thing that pisses me off with posts where I come back 24 hours later with an update and resurrect it Blush

And the people don’t see the update.

Sorry!

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theNumbersStation · 06/01/2022 17:49

Tfft OP 🎉

mommybear1 · 06/01/2022 17:54

Oooo brilliant 🤩 so glad you got it back

Charley50 · 06/01/2022 17:55

OP, I just read your posts, and actually had tears in my eyes, heart breaking for you. Then so happy for you that's it's been found! Five minutes reading has been quite an emotional rollercoaster.. ❤️