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I’m so upset about an old snowsuit, tell me to get a grip.

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GarethKeenanInvestigates · 05/01/2022 17:41

My snowsuit from when I was a baby 42 years ago has been worn by my 3 children too, from my 19 year old down to my 17 month old who was still wearing it. I caught a seam on something last week and it ripped.

My mother in law is great at sewing and fixing things, dh asked if she could fix the seam.

He went there at lunch to pick something up and she handed him a new snowsuit she had bought for dd as she had chucked mine in the bin as it was old and she thought she would replace it Sad

I’m not angry at her at all. It was a 42 year old mothercare snowsuit that’s been through 4 children (it was still in good condition though and quite retro and cool). She doesn’t know it was
sentimental to me, We should have said not to throw it if she couldn’t fix it.

To anyone else it was a bit of old shit but it’s was one of the only things I had left. My mum died when I was little, my dad is now 85 and in a care home with dementia, we’ve totally lost him
now, who he was has gone. At the start of his dementia, he started chucking away so much stuff and I didn’t know. So many family photos, videos all gone.

He’d always kept that snowsuit though as my mum bought it the day she found out she was pregnant with me, and he remembered laughing at her because she had bought it in 1 year old size rather than newborn because she was in such an excited flap on the way home from the dr. He loved seeing my older two in it. My littlest dd, he was too far gone to even register.

Plus, I had it in my head that if I was ever l lucky enough to have a grandchild one day, I’d be that annoying gran who passed it down.

I need to get a bloody grip, don’t I. It’s a fucking snowsuit, not a royal christening gown.

OP posts:
GarethKeenanInvestigates · 07/01/2022 08:35

@friskybivalves

What you absolutely have to do now is work out how to post a picture of it for us all to see !!!!
I know that the trouble with making a new account!
OP posts:
AmazingBouncingFerret · 07/01/2022 08:41

What a lovely outcome!

Reminds me of when I was burgled a few years back, they took all my jewellery including pieces that my ex husband gave me that I was saving for our DD. Also taken was my grandmother’s wedding ring. I was absolutely gutted she would have been 100 years old if still alive today. Fast forward a year after the incident I was clearing my kitchen cupboards because we were moving house. Inside a little hand made clay pot alongside a trolley token and a kinder egg toy was my grandma’s wedding ring. It’s stayed on my finger ever since, I’m not risking it again!

Mummyto2rugrats · 07/01/2022 08:47

I'm so sorry for you, you aren't being unreasonable at all, I wouldbe just as devastated 💔 it holds so many memories for you. My DH never throws without checking because of this with me I still wear a jumper I took from my gran house when my grandad passed and that was 10 years ago.

I would do as OP suggest get a picture compilation of all 4 of you wearing either in a frame or on a cushion hope that helps

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 07/01/2022 09:17

@Mummyto2rugrats, read the updates, she got it back! 😊

RantyAunty · 07/01/2022 10:28

So happy to hear you got it back!!

It needs to be encased in it's on special container with the story about it and how never to throw it away.

CharityDingle · 07/01/2022 12:20

@AmazingBouncingFerret

What a lovely outcome!

Reminds me of when I was burgled a few years back, they took all my jewellery including pieces that my ex husband gave me that I was saving for our DD. Also taken was my grandmother’s wedding ring. I was absolutely gutted she would have been 100 years old if still alive today. Fast forward a year after the incident I was clearing my kitchen cupboards because we were moving house. Inside a little hand made clay pot alongside a trolley token and a kinder egg toy was my grandma’s wedding ring. It’s stayed on my finger ever since, I’m not risking it again!

Aww, that's amazing!
Holothane · 07/01/2022 13:49

Fabulous just fabulous news I’m thrilled for you.

prettyteapotsplease · 07/01/2022 16:22

All's well that ends well OP and we're all relieved and pleased for you.

Sweetpea1532 · 07/01/2022 19:40

@GarethKeenanInvestigates
May we see a photo of your sweet little snowsuit? I adore looking at baby and toddler clothes Xmas Grin

wentworthinmate · 10/01/2022 16:46

I'm currently having a major sort out and am trying not to be sentimental over things. At the end of the day when you pass it probably would have been thrown out anyway (that's how I look at my stuff!). You have the memories and photos so try not to be too sad.

EarringsandLipstick · 10/01/2022 17:01

@wentworthinmate

She got it back! RTFT.

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