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Gifting non-vegan art to a vegan friend

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forinborin · 15/12/2021 11:28

A ridiculous first world problem of today.

And the problem is that I commissioned a painting for one of my old dear friends as a Christmas present and just realised now that the artist uses quite a lot of animal-derived products in their work (ox gall as a primer, sable/squirrel brushes, things like that). Realised after watching some video tutorials of the said artist.

The friend is long-term vegetarian, turned vegan around a year ago. Quite strict about it (not in a proselytising way, but all close people know).

Would it be ethically ok to still give it to her? Or would it be below the "tolerance" level? Or do I ask her first if she is ok with it (it was intended as a surprise, so this will ruin it in a sense)? I feel so stupid now for not checking, but it is not something that occurred to me at all.

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forinborin · 11/01/2022 07:53

All was successful, I fessed up with the narrative in line with what people suggested on this thread previously and she very kindly accepted it and said not even to think about it twice.

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BrutusMcDogface · 12/01/2022 14:49

Wonderful! 😊

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