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To say if you’re feeling sorry for Allegra Stratton…

285 replies

Tillsforthrills · 09/12/2021 08:17

m.youtube.com/watch?v=2b83rSqBLfw

Please don’t.

OP posts:
Lorriestakingppe · 09/12/2021 09:48

Malibuismysecrethome
I thought she might have been crying for Arthur but no, it was herself she was weeping for.

What in god's name are you on about?

PicsInRed · 09/12/2021 09:48

That's an appalling video - at "fights" Stratton clearly understood that there was an unsustainable and potentially unsafe living environment. It's obvious this poor woman was trying to say this without airing her most personal business on camera.

Crackingowlsanctuary · 09/12/2021 09:48

I hope the young woman in that video (not sure how long ago that was) enjoyed watching her sniffly resignation speech.

Florianus · 09/12/2021 09:48

@tallduckandhandsome

Do we know that Boris wasn’t there?

I would have thought the reason they were so brazen was that Bojo was there or senior Tories?

We don't know for sure, but the allegation is that the party was for No.10 staff - civil servants, advisors, officials - not for politicians. I wonder if Dominic Cummings was one of those present.
Wheresthebeach · 09/12/2021 09:49

Don't feel sorry for her but she's the least of our problems really.

Served up as a scapegoat. Swim with sharks and all that.

Cryalot2 · 09/12/2021 09:49

Why should I feel sorry for her?

I have more than enough going on in my own life than to worry about her.

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 09/12/2021 09:49

@Hobnobsandbroomstick

She can get fucked.
I love this - short and to the point, and I agree.
AndARiverBeneathYourFeet · 09/12/2021 09:51

Well. She's got the face she deserves.

Arsehole.

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 09/12/2021 09:51

And she hasn't "taken the fall" or been scapegoated - she'll be back soon, bold as brass with another well paid role as a pundit.

Probably on the BBC, like Vicky Pryce when she got out of jail.

These people all use their networks to keep going.

EmmaWoodhousestreehouse · 09/12/2021 09:52

@ItsSnowJokes

I have never felt sorry for her, she is an entitled, privileged twat. She laid down with dogs (to get 125k a year for a non job) and she came out with fleas. More heads should role but I think it's unlikely as senior tories think just the 1 head is enough on this. All a bunch of self serving, money grabbing cunts.
Perfectly worded.
x2boys · 09/12/2021 09:53

@Malibuismysecrethome

I thought she might have been crying for Arthur but no, it was herself she was weeping for.
Well she had just been publicly humiliated and forced to resign I don't feel sorry for her but can understand she would be upset I'm not sure why she be crying for the murder of a child she had never met in that particular instance.
fournonblondes · 09/12/2021 09:53

No I do not feel sorry for her or the for the entitled people who want get free houses if you do not have one. They are both dreadful and they are both what makes this country awful.

DorothyZbornakIsAQueen · 09/12/2021 09:54

@girlmom21

Does anyone actually feel sorry for her?
My thoughts exactly!
Octavia174 · 09/12/2021 09:58

@RedToothBrush

She looked dreadful on that video. Its undeniable. She had to go.

However she wasn't at the party.

The bloke in the video with her, hasn't resigned.
The partygoers haven't resigned.
Those other people in senior positions who knew about the party haven't resigned.

She really is a scapegoat still.

There was no party, no rules were broken, no reason for her to go or anyone else.

So we are all be assured !

florafoxtrot · 09/12/2021 09:58

@fournonblondes

No I do not feel sorry for her or the for the entitled people who want get free houses if you do not have one. They are both dreadful and they are both what makes this country awful.
You don't feel sorry for people who don't have houses?
Shadedog · 09/12/2021 09:59

I wonder who paid for her house and if she lived with her parents until she could afford one

I’m willing to bet that Allegra Stratton has never claimed housing benefit.

Don’t feel sorry for her but it’s unfair that the other people, the ones at the party, the ones at the practice press briefing, jrm who was filmed in a similar “joke”, and those who giggled alongside, and BJ whose fecking house the party was is in are just swanking around pretending they don’t know anything about it.

SickAndTiredAgain · 09/12/2021 09:59

@BlameItOnTheBlackStar

The thing is: media training 101 is, when there's a camera in the room, always always act like it's on.

So she was shit at her job anyway.

It worse than not assuming it was on, she knew it was on, she says “this is being recorded”
twilightermummy · 09/12/2021 09:59

I’m so pleased that you posted this as, I too, was feeling sorry for her.

It does piss me off that a woman is paying for this though. I want to know who it was in that crowd in the video. I’ve heard on one of the morning chatshows that perhaps Jacob Reece Mogg was there? They all need to fuck off in all honesty. They are a nasty party and there’s hardly anybody in the cabinet that I see fit to take over BJ.

I think Kier needs replacing too whilst I’m on a rant as he should have wiped the floor with them on this. Angela Raynor would have done much better I’m sure.

DappyApple · 09/12/2021 10:00

Wow she was clearly looking down her sneery little nose at that poor woman, she clearly has no understanding of real life!

But must say the woman handled herself well. Don’t think I would have been so restrained!

I don’t know anyone that’s feeling sorry for her, I certainly don’t and I also agree others need to be held accountable for the whole shit show, not just her!

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/12/2021 10:01

Apparently the young woman worked for Tower Hamlets council, she wasn't even unemployed, just needed housing benefit.

DahliaMacNamara · 09/12/2021 10:01

The young mother in the video is wonderfully composed and dignified in the face of Stratton's vile sneering. There's no reason at all to feel sorry for her. She'll bounce back just fine, thank you very much, with no need to beg for a bed in a relative's already-cramped accommodation.

Yes, of course she's being scapegoated. If No 10 think that brings the matter to a close, they are very much mistaken.

Onlinedilema · 09/12/2021 10:01

She is the scapegoat.
A party was held at Boris Johnson's house.
2 options either he didn't know (really? It's his house ffs)
Or he was there and fully aware.
The man is a self entitled twat with no regard for the common person. None of this government give one single fuck about anyone else.
They don't care about you or I.
I've watched a clip of Rees Mogg talking at a party laughing and joking. He should go.
Aww well as long as people keep voting them in they will carry on like this.

YonderTweek · 09/12/2021 10:02

@ItsSnowJokes

I have never felt sorry for her, she is an entitled, privileged twat. She laid down with dogs (to get 125k a year for a non job) and she came out with fleas. More heads should role but I think it's unlikely as senior tories think just the 1 head is enough on this. All a bunch of self serving, money grabbing cunts.
This sums it up nicely. Smile

Some dudes on Twitter were saying that she looks like she needs an arm around her. Envy (Not actual envy!)

OldaRailer · 09/12/2021 10:02

It's obvious why the plan of her taking press conferences didn't go ahead.

viques · 09/12/2021 10:03

@CurzonDax

That poor woman in the OP video. The look in her eyes as Stratton was laying into her. Also, how privileged does Stratton sound? Without knowing the woman's situation, and her mother's, how can anyone say, "You and your child should just go and live in your mum's spare bedroom." If only it were that simple for many people out there.
Stratton lives in Canonbury, judging by the bit of the house shown in the crying video it looks like one of the five story several millions plus a piece numbers. Maybe she should be asked to justify that amount of space for two adults and two children. Horrible woman, like all the Boris /Carrie cronies given a publicaly funded job based on who you know not ability.