This is a SW talking about the reality of the job. Which means (by definition) dealing with people with problems in their life and often a refusal to take full responsibility for their issues. Its much easier to blame others for the problem.
We know there is a pattern with both perpertrators of crime and victims of domestic violence. That isn't in dispute. Identifying these patterns is actually helpful, indeed necessary.
However, in this case the OP has just expressed how it feels like groundhog day to be hearing the same over and over again.
But she's not given any identifying information nor said something which has a go at these people in a way that does anything but express frustration at hearing the same thing over and over again.
(And yep I've double checked the posts).
Other people are assuming that she is passing judgment beyond that. That says something about their own prejudices not the OPs that they assume she's being disparging etc about it.
Indeed she could be expressing frustration that the people she deals with all have a narrow life experience and thats not their fault. Or that they have all had a tough break in life and she wishes they were more able to cope with situations. Or that she wished that her clients thought more of themselves and were worth family helping them. You don't know what she thinks about the constant use of the phrases from what she's said.
It could easily suggest how much she cares about people rather than her looking down on them. I disagree completely that it suggests a lack of empathy. Its possibly quit the opposite.
I actually think drawing attention to there being a pattern and a cycle that seems difficult to break out of, is useful and raises awareness. It should get people talking about what society should be doing to change that.
The fact that instead, people are jumping on the OP saying she should quit and that she's unprofessional and they jump to the conclusion that since shes a SW she's bad and trouble says rather more troubling things about society.
That says they don't want to hear about the problem because they don't want to have to think about how you address it. They want it brushed under the carpet and ignored. If its hidden away from middle class day to day reality and drawing attention to it can be blamed on crap SW then its all good. There is no discussion of SW work load, pressure they are under, how they are treated by the rest of society and their clients etc etc.
To me it just highlights how much SW are dumped on and don't get proper support from government and society in general. Instead they are deliberately stigmatised by some for certain political agendas and to pass the blame rather than examining the institutional level neglect of social care.