I haven't spoke to my husband for 2 days He thinks I am being unfair, and making a big deal out of nothing. I keep thinking about it, and do not feel like I am being unfair at all.
Friday night, we went to the pub with his 2 new colleagues and their partners. We were just chatting, when one of the ladies asked him " So how many kids do you have?" He replied by saying that he had 3 sons. The woman proceeded to say " So all boys no girls?"
He laughed and said "yup".
At that point I wanted to cry and punch the table so badly. WE HAVE A DAUGHTER. My 20 yo daughter passed away in 2019. I am so angry and upset that he said that.
I confronted him at home , and he saw nothing wrong with it : " Well she's dead, we don't have 4 children anymore".
I grabbed my purse and went to my sister's house. Haven't talked to him since. He keeps messaging me telling me how much he loves me, that I need to get over my, OUR, daughter's death.
Aibu? I never want to see him again.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To be upset that my husband said he has 3 kids when he has 4?
632 replies
LaGauchiste · 15/11/2021 16:05
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
2445 votes. Final results.
POLL
You are being unreasonable
55%
You are NOT being unreasonable
45%
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.