to be annoyed DH is going on a stag weekend to Amsterdam?

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DH is going on a stag weekend after Christmas to Amsterdam and too be honest, I am not too happy about it. I have heard what really goes on and why men go there, i.e. sex shops, brothels, live sex shows etc.

The blokes he is going with are a bunch of knobs. I have heard the majority of them frequent these types of places (only from what DH has said).

DH went on a stag weekend to Edinburgh a few years back and the guy who's stag party it was, was well up for visiting a brothel and guess what? he is going on the stag weekend to Amsterdam .

AIBU to be annoyed about him going? I am feeling a bit down in the dumps today and keep thinking all sorts about what they will get up too.

Whatever happened to guys going for a few beers at the local? It seems the norm for stag weekends to be held abroad nowadays. WHY is that?

No cote dazur sorry to tell you but only you are interested in your sex life

Why keep telling the world wide web about it

Self esteem issues

Oh by the way Motherfunk, a word
in your ear,

Sexploitation

CoteDZazur - I thought it was a little bit too graphic and unecessary.

Star, are you drunk?

You seem to have bit of a problem understanding what people are actually saying and why.

O f courese there are aspects of your private life that your children do not need to know about it is ludicrous to claim otherwise.
I did many things in my life before I had children that they will never know about because it is just not necessary

I just thought it was immature

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Who said "sexpolitation" MotherFunk? Did I miss it?

As for commercial sex being the same as sex, the women are being paid to pretend to enjoy it. Unless you take the Victorian view that women should just lie back and think of England or the money, it's not sex in any real sense of the word.

scrolled up as far (not very) as 'i would never allow dh'.

marriage partnership or the very chattel attitude that women historically have fought against.

That's what it is

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Oops, I did miss it.

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How old is your dh? I doubt peer pressure will tempt him to do it. If your gut is telling you he'll cheat then you need to work on this or decide what you want to do about your marriage.
I went to Amsterdam last year and didn't even get round to visiting the red light district it's that tucked away. We just enjoyed ourselves and went to museums etc..
If someone is willing to pay 50 euros to get their rocks off then that's up to them but any guy mature and happy in their relationship would be mad to do this IMO.
Plus it usually comes out in the end.

Mirror motherfunk (I'm holding it up)

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God I love that word sexploitation

Its so 1970's

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Star. you are making me laugh SO HARD thank you!!!

So I am the only one that was a little bit offended by CotesDAzurs post??

You;re looking in it

(You keep telling other people to stop doing stuff while slagging them off for telling other people what to do)

Case rests

(I might be a lawyer)

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Seriously doubt it star with your flawed logic.

Vital attribute I've always thought