to be annoyed DH is going on a stag weekend to Amsterdam?

[JinglyJangly]

DH is going on a stag weekend after Christmas to Amsterdam and too be honest, I am not too happy about it. I have heard what really goes on and why men go there, i.e. sex shops, brothels, live sex shows etc.

The blokes he is going with are a bunch of knobs. I have heard the majority of them frequent these types of places (only from what DH has said).

DH went on a stag weekend to Edinburgh a few years back and the guy who's stag party it was, was well up for visiting a brothel and guess what? he is going on the stag weekend to Amsterdam .

AIBU to be annoyed about him going? I am feeling a bit down in the dumps today and keep thinking all sorts about what they will get up too.

Whatever happened to guys going for a few beers at the local? It seems the norm for stag weekends to be held abroad nowadays. WHY is that?

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5 yr old?

So you'd be comfortable with your 15 year old knowing daddy goes to lap dancing clubs

Get the point

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No-one but get the point

You would really have a problem with your son ever going to a strip club or walk down a street lined with prostitutes?

Is he ever going to be allowed to read Playboy? Have a girlfriend? Will he be allowed to masturbate?

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MF - you are one hell of a liberated woman .

Seriously MF- does you blokes frequent places like Amsterdam/Prague? Have we hit a nerve? Maybe you are so argumentative because your bloke goes on stag w'ends a lot?
Do you REALLY mind him doing this (asuming he does of course)?

If you're so bloody right you wouldn't mind your children (of a certain age obv) knowing how you spend your time

If you would mind, think its sordid etc, bad influence, exploitative of men and women

I rest my case

that should be bloke (sorry MF)

This thread is bizarre
Why tell your kids anything
Daddy is off to Holland with his mates this weekend for a party.

that's for sure all the discussion there would be in this house

Approval of your son seeing prostitutes , visiting lap clubs etc, good oh! so the exploitation continues down the generations

Some of us are trying to bring our children up properly

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You don't have to do something just because it exists

I've made my point

If its wrong its wrong, hiding it doesn't make it ok, kidding yourself doesn't make it ok

Case rests

Aprpproval of it motherfunk, approval ??

How the hell did I guess you were single motherfunk

And by the way there's no need to swear its pretty unpleasant hope you don't do it in front of your children

StarofBethleCam - Did you ever gave Dh a blowjob? And would you really explain to your daughters how you have a habit of sucking their dad's penis until he squirts a white goo?

Star - You are way out of line. It is not your place to judge anyone here on their current relationship status or lack thereof. You don't know anybody's history.

Do you know what MF, I don't know you personally and we have disagreed on this thread but I really like your posts (well maybe not all of them) .

PMSL at being told not to judge on this thread

Is there something wrong with being single then cotedazur

"Did you ever gave Dh a blowjob? And would you really explain to your daughters how you have a habit of sucking their dad's penis until he squirts a white goo?"

Is this really appropriate CoteDAzure? I find this quite offensive.