My daughter does an extra curricular activity which is linked to scouting/guiding.
The activity involves performing, for which she has to wear a specific uniform.
The uniform specifies exact items which are all boys'/men's clothes. Think men's dress trousers and a men's shirt.
There is no alternative uniform for female members.
The uniform is uncomfortable and fits my daughter badly no matter what size we buy. I've asked several times if she can wear women's versions of each item and have been told that if she does, she will be excluded from performances. They insist the uniform is unisex. It is not. The items are sold by the uniform company as boys/mens items.
AIBU to think this is quite wrong and that the male members would never be expected to wear women's clothes? Let alone be excluded if they refused!
My daughter wants to do the activity and I really don't want to be 'that' parent, but it makes me quite uncomfortable and I'm shocked that the people in charge of the activity think it is acceptable. There is a man in charge overall but his wife is also heavily involved in the running.