To text a one night stand?

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I had a one night stand 2 weeks ago. When I say one night stand, it was a one night stand however he has messaged me periodically the past 6 years basically 'what are you upto' texts that go nowhere. We have also seen each other at gathering etc but nothing ever happened.

Anyway, 2 weeks ago, he messaged me, I said come over and we had sex. It was great, I really enjoyed it. However, I haven't heard from him since and I haven't contacted him either, which is not a problem and to be expected for one night stands. But I find myself tonight really itching to text him, just offering a repeat basically.

Will this come across as desperate? I'm scared that he might reject me? I'm on the larger side (5ft 3 in, 15 stone) , my friends tell me that he wouldn't have slept with me if he had a problem with my weight but I know better.

By messaging him I am in no way hoping for a relationship, I am definetely not looking for that. Just another genuinely amazing shag.

WIBU to message him? And if not...what do I message?

@DollyPartBaked

I mean i would just say 'thinking about the other night - want to meet up again?'

Basically I'd drop the 'loads'. Don't fluff his ego too much

Perfect thanks, will do

Oh god sent

My heart is beating out my chest. This isn't normal

Well done.
Nothing ventured and all that...

@Matrons

Yes go for it. Life is short and good sex rare. I'd just send a short msg like "i've been thinking about you this evening 😉" and see if he replies.

You have nothing to lose.

This...absolutely!

Some men prefer a larger lady I know dbro does doesn't find skinny woman attractive. Just becareful your on the same page.

I'm excited for you OP! Fingers crossed for you to get fingered! 😅😂🤞 (sorry!) haha

Oh god, not to be obsessive or anything BUT I sent it 4 mins ago, he is online and not bothered to read it!! Ahhhh unsend unsend unsend...or am I being dramatic? 🤣

@TTCyay

I'm excited for you OP! Fingers crossed for you to get fingered! 😅😂🤞 (sorry!) haha

Hahaha here is hoping 🤣

Give him some more time to respond!

Do not keep going online. Make him think you're doing something else.

Okay okay 😅

Hoping for an update... all invested now!

Here for the updates

Me too!!

I’m invested too. Hope he texts back soon!

Fingers crossed shamelessly place marking

I’m way too invested in your next shag

More exciting than my life so shameless place marking.

I'm eating cookies in bed,wondering,waiting,hoping.

Let us know op!😂

I really hope you get the green light!

Ugh bad news. He has been on and offline and just not reading

I know you've texted him now. Of course there's nothing wrong with doing so, if you are definitely cool with the situation & just interested in the sex.

However this part stood out to me:

Will this come across as desperate? I'm scared that he might reject me? I'm on the larger side (5ft 3 in, 15 stone) , my friends tell me that he wouldn't have slept with me if he had a problem with my weight but I know better.

You do sound conscious of how he views you, and your body & I'd be a bit wary that you're not as chilled about the whole situation as you say.

How rude is that? Not even an 'yeah great to see you but I'm not up for a repeat'

Might be in the middle of something, wouldn’t read too much into it yet