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To text a one night stand?

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itistragic · 06/10/2021 19:34

I had a one night stand 2 weeks ago. When I say one night stand, it was a one night stand however he has messaged me periodically the past 6 years basically 'what are you upto' texts that go nowhere. We have also seen each other at gathering etc but nothing ever happened.

Anyway, 2 weeks ago, he messaged me, I said come over and we had sex. It was great, I really enjoyed it. However, I haven't heard from him since and I haven't contacted him either, which is not a problem and to be expected for one night stands. But I find myself tonight really itching to text him, just offering a repeat basically.

Will this come across as desperate? I'm scared that he might reject me? I'm on the larger side (5ft 3 in, 15 stone) , my friends tell me that he wouldn't have slept with me if he had a problem with my weight but I know better.

By messaging him I am in no way hoping for a relationship, I am definetely not looking for that. Just another genuinely amazing shag.

WIBU to message him? And if not...what do I message?

OP posts:
freudien · 23/10/2021 13:18

OP can we have an update please?

1forAll74 · 23/10/2021 14:44

I would text him, if you are really that desperate for sex, you need to get on his list, as he probably has a list of other one night stands to go through.

georgarina · 23/10/2021 21:02

I would text him, if you are really that desperate for sex, you need to get on his list, as he probably has a list of other one night stands to go through.

Doesn't sound like that at all...a woman should be able to have a FWB/ONS etc without being shamed...being condescendingly told she is worth more or he's probably with tons of other girls is just another form of slut shaming.

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