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To be annoyed my mum says I’m a snob for this

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BrendaBubbles · 05/10/2021 19:28

It’s relevant to note that I am from a working class background and last year I moved into a flat in an actually “naice” area of the northern town I grew up in. The number of the flat has “A” after it because it was originally the upstairs of a single Edwardian townhouse and the ground floor has the number only.. for example I have 69A and downstairs they have 69.

I thought having the A just looked a bit rubbish and a friend suggested that I could instead give the flat a name and register it with the post office and so on to use it officially. So I went through this rigmarole and my flat is now called something along the lines of Brenda Tower then the road name etc (not exactly that name due to privacy!)

I thought it was quite a fun thing to do but when I told my DM she went berserk and said she was disappointed because she hadn’t brought me up to be so snobby about something like an address and that moving to this part of town has made me into a worse person. I thought she was joking at first but she is really holding me in contempt for it and makes annoying references to how “posh” and “too good” I am at family gatherings and things. Other than having a nice flat in a nice area and giving it my own name, Am I actually being unreasonable?? Lots of people with cottages and things have house names so why can’t my flat?

OP posts:
Glitterblue · 07/10/2021 22:39

Her reaction is so OTT.

Our house has a name but no number, and nobody can ever find it! We don't live on a street though and it's always had this name.

Becca8675309 · 07/10/2021 23:01

It's a FLAT!! And you named it after yourself? AND you added "Towers" after your name? This cannot be for real!!

takenforgrantednana · 08/10/2021 11:03

pretentious
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adjective
attempting to impress by affecting greater importance or merit than is actually possessed.

all you have done is to cause trouble between you and your mum and put yourself at risk if their was an emergency as they couldnt find you. same with any deliveries you cause problems for couriers etc. so unless the whole block of flats was using the made up name youve given it then your best off sticking to the address that the post office use.

HarrietsweetHarriet · 08/10/2021 12:55

I think it's really lovely giving your home a name. In the same way sometimes people name their cars (but not personalised number plates - ewww).
There was a survey a while ago saying named properties were often more attractive to potential buyers.
Anyway, OP, I hope you create a very happy space in your new home.

Buffoonborisisatwat · 08/10/2021 14:37

It's a bit Vera duckworth, but as long as the address is easy to find for deliveries, emergency services etc, who really cares?

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