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To be glad it’s cold and wet?

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PartyPotato · 28/09/2021 21:07

I have been waiting for the whole of September for it to finally feel like autumn! I was getting so fed up of being hot and sweaty- it’s September, I want to be in jumpers and scarves and boots! I feel so cosy when it’s grey and wet outside. Obviously I don’t want it to piss it down all the time, but I don’t mind the odd bit of rain. And I definitely prefer the cold and the dark (great, I’ve made myself sound like some sort of sewer creature).

I love the calmness of autumn & winter. I find summer too intense- not just the heat but the fact that there’s so much going on all the time, it gets too much for me. I work in an industry that changes noticeably with the seasons. There’s less going on in the colder months, less stuff to go wrong, so less stress for me.

I have genuinely noticed how much better a mood I’ve been in the last couple of days since it’s gone cooler.

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Changednamehere56 · 04/10/2021 08:32

@BoreiPuriHagafen

Yabu. I'm fucking depressed, cold, my gutters are leaking.

I can expect months of sinking into ever deeper depression, suicidal misery and despair, in cold and darkness.

But hey, as long as you can wank on about cosy jumpers.

Well I have reverse SAD which makes me suicidal in Summer, but I don't accuse other people of "wanking on" about sunshine and long days...
PartyPotato · 04/10/2021 08:54

@Changednamehere56 thank you, I really didn’t appreciate that PPs comment at all.

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Mistressofnone · 04/10/2021 19:24

Agree that was pathetic. I did enjoy @MrsSkylerWhite image of the cats blowing in though 😹

LimitIsUp · 04/10/2021 22:54

@MasterBeth

But it’s been autumnal for most of the summer! Cloudy, cool and grey. YABU.
I think I've experienced a different summer to some people. It's been a very dry summer - at least on the south coast (my garden has been struggling), and whilst not blisteringly hot, it's been a steady, pleasantly 19-23 degrees most of the time
SlidDownTheElephantsTrunk · 04/10/2021 23:18

I also have MS and honestly, being warm or hot is insufferable.

I'm hot all the bloody time and very rarely put the heating on.

Love the winter!

stairway · 06/10/2021 21:31

Looks like it’s going to get warm again for a few days hurrah 😀

JesusIsAnyNameFree · 06/10/2021 21:36

@stairway

Looks like it’s going to get warm again for a few days hurrah 😀
Shame.
StrangeLookingParasite · 08/10/2021 21:28

@stairway

Looks like it’s going to get warm again for a few days hurrah 😀
Oh bum.
MiaMarshmallows · 09/10/2021 08:13

This has surely got to be the warmest September/October we have ever had.

Thatsplentyjack · 09/10/2021 08:16

It was 4° here on Wednesday until about 11 o'clock. It was so nice. Bloody back to 16° yesterday. I know that's not really hot but ffs it was the 16th of October!

Thatsplentyjack · 09/10/2021 08:16

Sorry 8th of October. Dont know where the 16th came from.

Glassofshloer · 09/10/2021 08:18

YANBU. Love it, feels very fresh & invigorating compared with our muggy washout of a summer.

user1471517095 · 09/10/2021 08:48

I don't like Autumn, and up here in Yorkshire the summer hasn't been especially good. A hot couple if weeks in July, really. I think people forget not everyone lives is the South of England where it's usually warmer.

Thatsplentyjack · 09/10/2021 09:20

@user1471517095

I don't like Autumn, and up here in Yorkshire the summer hasn't been especially good. A hot couple if weeks in July, really. I think people forget not everyone lives is the South of England where it's usually warmer.
I live in Scotland, and it's been too warm here for me 😂
hangrylady · 09/10/2021 09:24

Autumn is falsely advertised if you ask me! You're made to think it's lovely colours and piles of crunchy leaves and what you actually get is pissing rain and wind. I only like it because Christmas is on the horizon and I do love Christmas.

Agadorsparticus · 09/10/2021 09:27

Nope, absolutely hate being cold and wet and the darkness is so depressing. All the stupid layers I have to wear and carry an umbrella at all times just in case. Stress is now building towards Xmas, will I be organised enough this year? Constant headache of having to sort everything out. There's just nothing to look forward to.

I'll just hibernate until April.

My3cents1 · 09/10/2021 09:31

I found heat really messes with MS. I hope you are getting all the help you need with your diagnosis

MiaMarshmallows · 09/10/2021 17:00

Boiling hot here again. Actually getting annoying now.

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