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To not shower everyday?

382 replies

Zwills · 19/09/2021 15:46

Especially if you don't work full time or leave the house everyday. Sometimes I prefer to shower in the evenings so I feel fresh before going to bed, other days if I'm going out I will have a shower in the morning or If I wake up earlier before the kids i have one then. I don't always wash my hair I don't always shower everyday if I am just at home and exhausted. Just wondering how honest everyone will be or do people literally shower everyday/twice a day without fail even if they don't leave their home. Obviously excluding when the weather the hot.

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PurpleDaisies · 19/09/2021 15:59

No matter what you think, you will smell

Nonsense.

Comedycook · 19/09/2021 16:00

I shower or bath every day but not necessarily in the morning. Mornings are a rush for me...I'm a sahm of school age dc...I sometimes have my shower or bath while they're at school instead

Teapleasevicar0 · 19/09/2021 16:01

Me personally I have to shower twice a day, that's my personal preference. However, I wouldn't find it at all an issue if someone else didn't shower every day and it was every other day. It's personal preference.

VeganCheesePlease · 19/09/2021 16:04

Every other day for me unless I need it (exercise etc) and I wash my hair once or twice a week. I have very thick wavy hair so if I washed it every day I'd get nothing done lol.
I am a stickler for bed sheets though and change them very regularly.

Peanutsandchilli · 19/09/2021 16:04

Nope. We share bath water too. Don't give a damn what others think.

NannyR · 19/09/2021 16:05

I shower every day that I'm working or out the house doing something, but if I'm having a day off and just pottering round the house, going shopping or out for a walk on my own I often won't bother, I always wear clean clothes and I don't smell.

roolz · 19/09/2021 16:05

I shower every morning. Doesn't take long, but it can feel like a chore of your not in the habit.

I like to be fresh out the shower when I put on clean clothes but you'll be fine if you shower every other day, if your otherwise clean.

SnowyPetals · 19/09/2021 16:08

I shower daily even if just at home, but I am perimenopausal and get hot flushes that can make me feel less than fresh.

CiaoForNiao · 19/09/2021 16:08

I don't shower every day. I don't even wash every day. But i rarely leave the house (mh issues) and sometimes having a wash uses more energy than I have.

My eczema is much better since I stopped showering daily and my hair is nicer too.

ThinWomansBrain · 19/09/2021 16:10

prefe
r baths to showers - days I don't have time I wash at the sink.

Growing up. very few homes had showers, daily baths certainly weren't a thing.

DressBitch · 19/09/2021 16:10

I'd feel weird putting on clean clothes without showering first.

ModerateOven · 19/09/2021 16:10

No matter what you think, you will smell
Daft.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 19/09/2021 16:13

This comes up a lot, and gathers quite polarised opinions.

Personally I don’t think women tend to need to shower every day. I don’t because it always seems to wet/ humidify my hair to some extent, but I’ll have a stand up wash on the alternate day when I don’t have a shower.

Meruem · 19/09/2021 16:13

I hate showers anyway, much prefer a bath. Although when I was working out of the house I did shower for speed. Now I wfh full time I’ll have a bath every other day and wash in between. But then I don’t have a partner. To be totally blunt, I think you do need to shower more if you have a sex life! (I personally have forgotten what that feels like!).

bumblenbean · 19/09/2021 16:13

I wouldn’t judge anyone who doesn’t but personally I have to shower every day. Very occasionally I don’t if I’m not going anywhere or am ill or whatever but I just feel really minging if I haven’t- but then I do get quite sweaty 😬 and my hair needs a daily wash. Not everyone is the same. I really don’t feel ready for the day / able to socialise unless I’ve had my daily shower!

It’s a bit like shaving I guess - if I don’t shave my legs every day there is stubble (not that I always do, they’re often unkempt!) but others could go several days with no re growth. Similarly I guess some people will get greasy / smelly quicker than others

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 19/09/2021 16:14

No matter what you think, you will smell

Just fundamentally not true!

ByTheSea · 19/09/2021 16:14

I have curly hair that needs to get wet every morning or it looks matted so I shower every morning. I'm used to it so would feel grungy without but I'm sure I'd be fine.

VladmirsPoutine · 19/09/2021 16:16

There's an impression on here that MN users are obsessively clean. In my experience people love to openly brag about how filthy they are. And then when they do shower they don't wash themselves entirely because "the water and soap goes down your body anyway."

Boombadoom · 19/09/2021 16:17

I’d say I shower 6-7 times a week on average. I’ll miss the odd one but given it only takes a few minutes I usually do regardless.

Face is washed twice a day without fail and teeth are always brushed twice a day without fail. Hands several times a day. I wouldn’t not shower if I smelt though.

NuffSaidSam · 19/09/2021 16:18

'There's an impression on here that MN users are obsessively clean. In my experience people love to openly brag about how filthy they are.'

You're missing the best threads, loads of great clean freak ones to be had.

TheChippendenSpook · 19/09/2021 16:18

One of the worst smells is someone who hasn't showered but applied perfume regardless.

I'm not saying you do that though.

pilates · 19/09/2021 16:18

Shower/bath every day, it makes me feel nice and refreshed.

Macncheeseballs · 19/09/2021 16:19

No the clean freaks come out on the threads about shoes indoors, toilet lids up or down, and laundry frequency

MeredithGreyishblue · 19/09/2021 16:19

Here we go... the Competitive Cleanliness Games 2021... on your marks, get wet, go!

LookToTreblesGoingTreblesGone · 19/09/2021 16:19

I don't bath or shower every day. And as for showering twice a day...how dirty do you get whilst sleeping?

When I was growing up in the 60's and 70's I didn't know anyone with a shower, we all had a bath tub. Can you imagine a family of even just 4 having 2 baths a day each, or even once a day?! We only had a small hot water tank on an immersion heater, that was never going to happen!

And contrary to a PP's statement that "you will smell" if you don't shower every day all I can say is that's utter nonsense.