He said I was being bitchy

[triedtired]

During an argument. New relationship of 6 months, he called me pathetic and bitchy during an argument. AIBU to be extremely angry? Am I being dramatic?

How can anyone answer without knowing what the argument was about and what you said?

All depends if what you said was pathetic and bitchy?

Hang on while I get my crystal ball out...

Were you?

@FunTimes2020

Hang on while I get my crystal ball out...

Well depends, did he say it for fun?

If not, I imagine he said it because he thought it

More context and details needed i'm afraid..

Well we're you being those things? Whether or not you were it's up to you as to whether or not you want to stay in a relationship with him after the argument.

@triedtired

During an argument. New relationship of 6 months, he called me pathetic and bitchy during an argument. AIBU to be extremely angry? Am I being dramatic?

So what was the argument about Were you bitchy Are there any children involved Do you own your home Does he work Is he having an affair/doing drugs or in debt ?

Do tell us what led him to that conclusion, tired.

If you are arguing and you are being bitchy and pathetic / he is calling you bitchy and pathetic after 6 months I'd just end it TBH

@FunTimes2020😂😂

YANBU. Dump and move on.

Maybe you should ask an 8 ball.

How can anyone possibly answer that, how are we to know if you were being pathetic and bitchy?

If it helps

If you were not being no it’s not ok to say it
If you were being, yes he is right to call you out on it.

Hth,

@FunTimes2020

Hang on while I get my crystal ball out...

@FunTimes2020

Just woke my son up by laughing too hard at this 😂

I hate these half stories getting people to say YANBU then it turns out the poster says she said the bloke's mum looks like a bulldog's ball sack because she bought her a jam tart instead of a cream cake.

Pretty sure I saw this argument on the Jeremy Kyle show a couple of years back

Either way it doesn’t sound like good communicating, especially this early in the relationship. Arguing to the point where he’s calling you names, you’re possibly being nasty to him? Although not sure but it seems like something happened.

After only 6 months you should be having fun together.

Were you being nothing but complimentary during this argument? If you were, isn't that just a chat?

Well were you? you have given no context

Just woke my son up by laughing too hard at this

Really?

Regardless of why it happened whether you were being bitchy or he is just an ass it's not normal for arguments to escalate to this point at 6 months.

@TrueCrimeWave

Yes, at the persons comment which is quoted in my reply to them. Is it so unbelievable? Maybe I don’t have a hugely entertaining life so I did find it genuinely hilarious.