Hi all,
I’ve name changed for this
So to give a bit of background….. I have been with my DP for nearly three years. We work well together but argue occasionally like most.
My problem is when we argue he says things in anger that hurt me. He doesn’t understand and thinks I should just know he didn’t mean it,
The latest is that he turned round during an argument and said I was going to propose but I’m not now. This is the third time he’s said it. I have said before that it hurts me to hear ‘I was but now I’m not’ anyway we had a row yesterday over something small abs he said he was never going to propose because it wouldn’t be perfect.
I’ve gotten very upset at this as marriage is something we both want and I see as the ultimate commitment.
He tells me I shouldn’t be upset Because he means he won’t propose because it will no longer be perfect due to what was said in anger….. he believes I shouldn’t be upset by this and can’t understand why I’ve been crying or distant
So help me out….
AIBU for being really upset that he’s saying he now will never ask me to marry him!