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Is this mum a CF?

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roonthebend · 07/08/2021 09:28

I am single mum to a 9 year old boy. There's another boy the same age who my son has became pally with in recent weeks. They are constantly going to each other's door to see if the other wants to come out to play and I was happy he had someone to play with. Frequently the little boy will come here and I will feed him which is fine. It's never been reciprocated as my son has never been invited into their home - again fine.

However, two nights ago he came for my son, it was 7 at night, had had a busy day so didn't really want another kid in the house. My son started putting on his shoes to go to the park and the little boy said 'my mum said I've not to go to the park' so in he came. His mum then came for him about an hour later which was strange as she usually just texts me to send him down.

Anyways, yesterday, I'm doing housework, a knock at the door, the little boy again. Son starts putting his shoes on and once again, 'mum says I've to just stay here' !! I then receive a text from her, 'will you send X home for 5pm please' not even a is that okay?

I'm starting to feel a bit annoyed with constant kids in the house and it's never reciprocated, as I've said my son hasn't been in their house. I'm happy he has someone to play with though and don't want to ruin that.

Is the mum a CF? And if so how do I handle this?

OP posts:
KnottyKnitting · 09/08/2021 20:10

CF= Cheeky F*cker!

Mamaof2males · 09/08/2021 22:45

Any update OP? X

Tinkerbell1980 · 11/08/2021 21:58

Here for the update Grin

Bertiebiscuit · 12/08/2021 08:48

You are being conned into providing free babysitting /childcare - put your foot down with the parents not the child - tell them that you do not want them to send the child over to yours any more as they are taking the p*ss - I think they should not be trusted any more as they plainly are neglecting their son

panauchocolat · 18/08/2021 18:11

Cheeky fucker

😂

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