Yes some of the new pro punter posts are quite ignorant and perhaps naive.
Part of the coping mechanism for repeated sexual abuse, is to mentally convince yourself that you have chosen this. Sometimes, this protective delusion is the only thing that keeps you alive, in the face of constantly having your body entered by men who you do not freely choose to have sex with.
It enables some to feel empowered for a while. But it isn't real empowerment, it isn't any more powerful than a DV victim choosing to stay in an abusive relationship.
Why is it different to other work? What an entitled, deliberately obtuse argument. Why are rape and murder the only crimes in the UK to which the limitations act do not apply? I will tell you. Rape, being not freely consensual sex, such as prostitutes suffer, is like being murdered, only not physically.
Every shitty vile sex act that you have undertaken with someone who you would prefer not to, makes you feel even more worthless. Bits of you die inside, like:
Belief in humanity.
Control of circumstances.
Trust.
Self worth.
Ability to keep safe.
Sanity.
If you have ever been raped or known someone who has, you should know the devastating consequences to an individual. Many times I would have preferred to have been dead and indeed inside I was. To cope.
The fact is, if these women had the choice to have the money and not do the deed with random strangers, they wouldn't do the sex act at all. They are doing it solely for the money, seeing few other options in life. Perhaps being trapped. That is NOT true consent.
So personally I do not feel negatively at all about prostitutes themselves, I am lucky not to be there. But I will despise any man who thinks putting his cock in someone for money, when looking in their eyes, they know it isn't wanted, as a rapist piece of shit.
It isnt work. It is abuse fir personal pleasure.