[quote Sadiecow]@newomums of so his previous partner was no more than a fuck when he was bored! Which resulted in a child? Wow he sounds a right catch!
He didn't want a child, just a fuck?
He should've used contraception then shouldn't he?
The whole dynamic sound awful, they all sound awful to be honest.
To be honest the OP does sound very bitter about the mother of her DHs, a woman he chose to have a child with!
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Clearly this hit a nerve for you. Maybe someone’s described you like it and you’re bitter about it. I won’t apologise with how I phrased it at all. It’s true and I wrote it in defence for myself.
No he didn’t want to have a child with her. It wasn’t a choice he made. It was a casual arrangement and he hardly knew her to be fair. Having casual sex isn’t a crime. Millions of people do it everyday. She was just sex, just like Iv been just sex for others. It’s life, get over it.
Not that it makes a blind bit of difference to this situation but they used condoms and it split and it’s not like he can force her to get a morning after pill. I know this is true as she’s wrote multiple times while having a hissy fit that ‘she’s glad the condom split and she can make his life a misery’. Iv seen the texts in black and white myself before you want to say some utter bull.
I can’t see one thing I have to be bitter about 
. I didn’t know him when she was sleeping with him but met him soon after... so I’m not the one that wanted to be his wife but got rejected so she’s made it her life long mission to make sure he’s not happy. I am the wife.
I’m also not the one who got pregnant by someone I was just having sex with. I tried to give my kids a stable home and made sure my relationship was secure first. Which it was ... still together over 10 years later 
So bitter I have suggested to DSC how about a beach day this weekend and we can do the baking on the other day. Super evil & super bitter.
Yawn.