to be surprised at how many Mumsnetters are fine with pornography? II

[Judy1234]

Continuing the previous thread - people's sexuality varies hugely and what some people think is disgusting is good fun for others. It's impossible to generalise and say XYZ practice is wrong or repugnant and I agree with the posts at the end of the other thread that porn often just reflects what people do. Obviously you pick where your own interests lie and are glad human beings are diverse.

I'm not upset Lucy. Do you think you might be projecting your own feelings possibly, this is a very disturbing subject after all? I was pretty pissed off yesterday when I was getting attacked, but I'm not upset.

You didn't upset me, you annoyed me but I expressed my annoyance (and gave a little something back), so don't worry about it.

Yees, I'd like to know too...

As long as it doesn't get into the carpet

It think anal followed by oral

lEM - absolutely understand no no no not a freak!

but things like that are v different when blown up to a macro level ie not in bedroom but on screen. It takes on a different power, different meaning, different function. I think.

also can i second bravery comment.

sorry, so should have put dc's to bed by now hence brevity

Something I wanted to say wrt the beginning of this thread, doing things that turns my partner on turns me on, I get a thrill from seeing how randy I make him and that power is a real buzz to many women. I wear lingerie for him, make-up I know turns him on, I say words that I know get him going (words he wouldnt hear me say at any other time) yes, this is done for him, but because I love his reaction, IMO, having a good sexual relationship with someone means partly doing things to please them, and they you, (I bought up the subject of anal sex earlier after this thread and dp said if it was something I would like to do to him I could- with a sextoy obviously!)
Bouncing off each other and enjoying each other's vibes is a big part of it, or at least for me.

LEM, as many have said brave post, but I think really it's quite normal!! I enjoy the same things and I know friends of mine do too.

Just promise me the toaster was for toast

vs I agree and second all you say about sex. but I don't think we're talking about sex..

although I know you don't agree, I think that sex and porn are critically different things.
So admire (and share to an extent) your sexual at-ease-ness (sorry) but it doesn't bring me closer to your views on ponr.

sorry i've said this before.

and that goes for porn as well as ponr.

wetting myself over the toaster comment!! All i can say is - i never did get one, industrial or otherwise!!!

i thought ass-mouth meant sucking the semen out of the anus of another girl who just had anal sex.

Enjoy your suppers, ladies and gents!

Thing is onebatmother, I'm trying to explain why alot of the things that happen in porn films do, because they happen in the real world, women are not sexually opressed just because they do something their man wants, or something that may be seen as control, and the same goes for films.

Although, as I have also said, I do still agree that some porn is on too thin a line, and that some people are pressured.

I still think the answer lies in education rather than the porn industry. If girls and guys are taught about sex and respect and relationships, rather than just biology, then they wont be turned into sexual predators because of a porn film or two, their opinions and ideals will already have been established.

ass to mouth is oral following anal, sucking cum out of someones ass or vagina is felching.

VS oh i see what you mean re a to m now.

let me think about the other point you made which is a fair one.

Is it rude to ask them to have a shower first.

where you're going honey, ain't NO shower going to reach.

Hmmmm, is it rude to ask if he has had a poo today then?

Don't you think that porn is just displaying what goes on in the real world? (I'm not on about the violent things, just what some of us may call normal).

sorry, just remembered that a to m isn;t felching.

but seriously, i think it's supposed to be disgusting, that's the point.

It's not about the people who do really enjoy doing that. the assumption is - for the producers and audience - that the girl is doing it because that's how low she's been brought.

I know, before you start, that some of us do enjoy it - but are all these girls supposed to be ones that find this sexy?

(just caught up on the other thread, to see that it has already been mentioned).

After all, anal sex has been around much long than porn on dvds and the internat!

And for when people say that the majority are stuck in it...there are always ways out