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AIBU?

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To not say anything, pack our stuff and just go to my Mums

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BreadCrumbsAndSalad · 09/05/2021 17:17

Because DH is being a total twat this evening.

He's been doing work on the house this weekend and is stressed with it but, as is usual for him, he takes that stress out on me.

Has a go at me for not helping enough (we have a very young baby) but then when I get baby to sleep and ask what I can do he yells at me because I 'wouldnt be able to do it anyway'. Slams doors, shouts about the house in general etc etc... I asked him nicely to calm down, he tells me to 'stop fucking telling him to calm down'.

AIBU to just quietly pack our stuff (me and baby) and just leave. I hate confrontation although I do tell him not to talk to me like that. He just gets so mad when he's stressed that you can't have a sensible conversation with him.

He's just nipped to the shop to get something he needs and I'm thinking of just not being here when he gets home.

OP posts:
willower · 10/05/2021 20:34

This doesn't sound good for the of term tbh OP. If you're in a position to go to your mum's and stay a while, I think you seriously need to consider whether you want to be in this long term. And for your child to be.

I was that child growing up and like a PP have serious anxiety now and also prone to falling into similar relationships... As it's "acceptable to stay and put up with it". It's not.

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