to be surprised at how many Mumsnetters are fine with pornography?

[Elizabetth]

Particularly as porn has become so much more mainstream in the past few years, I'd have thought that people would be concerned about premature sexualisation of children. Also I'm surprised that so many women are fine with it given that the humiliation and degradation of women is the central theme of pornography. You only have to look at the titles to realise that.

Most women don't enjoy pain, just like most people don't enjoy pain. What on earth is wrong with saying that?

I could have gone along with my boyfriend if I'd been a bit more in love with him or a bit more insecure in the relationship, then I could have claimed it was because I liked it and it had nothing to do with the fact that it was what he wanted and I was doing it to please him. Of course that wouldn't have been true.

Elizabetth, something else I want to say before I leave this thread.

Porn comes from sex, not the other way round, porn is representative of some form of sex or other, the idea's shown in porn, come from someone who ahs done it in real life first, yes people may get ideas they hadnt thought of, but the ideas had to come from somewhere in the first place!