Losing friends due to who I'm marrying

[coppafeel]

I'm due to marry someone, I hate to use the word 'famous' so I will say someone 'well known' - a D list celeb if you may. We are due to get married in December. Been with him for 2 years and throughout those 2 years I have been lost really good or so I thought, friends.

He is very controversial figure and so many of my friends have opinions about his views and can't even tolerate him for me. I'm at a loss of what to do, my friends were my life and were there for me through all the bad times but they have turned on me since meeting my partner. I can't just not be with the man I love because of their views but I don't understand why they cannot separate his views from me.

What can I do here?

If your friends don't like him that should tell you a lot; however, if they don't know him that well, maybe he has an extra-character they see out and about (not the in-home person). Shy people can create an outside persona (to try and fit in) but usually ends up disastrous and are not really being themselves. You need to ask yourself a) is he always like that or b) is he different in the home environment ...................