Dd Chapel of rest

[Namechangenumber2000]

Dd is 11, 12 in November. has adhd and possible autism. She's a young 11. Shes in mainstream school and is year head. My dad died and she's been asking to go see him before they bury him. She was very close to him. She heard the paramedics trying cpr. I asked why and she said just to see him. She really wants to. I cant decide. Could it bring her some closure of makes things worse?

Aibu to say no?

I'm so glad it went well.

So sorry for your loss

I’m pleased it went well op. X

Thank you guys xx

@Namechangenumber2000

We went. I triple checked that he looked OK before letting dd in. He really did look peaceful. She rubbed his head as dd just cut his hair. Before What she calls the pussy cat cut as it feels soft like a cat. It's hailing and snowing today which seems fitting he loved the cold. Family is arriving today from all over.

So glad it went well and that your dd got to have that special moment. It's clearly meant a lot to her

That's great, op, brought tears to my eyes. You made the right call for you and your daughter.

Thankyou for your update - glad it happened and love the soft as a pussycat hair