Late ILs? No, I wouldn't have. Mil loved to talk about anyone, so she'd have been round all the time talking. Late FIL didn't have much to talk about.
My dad is also nosy, so he'd have been round all the time. DM, well, if she were still with us, she'd have wanted me there often for company.
And these are/were nice people. I'm just an introvert andd need my own space a lot of the time. But my ex, however, wouldn't have wanted to live anywhere near his or my parents. He had no time for his own parents, uness there was some benefit to him, and he didn't like my parents, probably because it seems they'd sussed him out years ago, and were waiting for me to leave him. They tried not to say anything becuase they were afraid it would push me further in his direction.
Oh well, water under the bridge now. Of the 6 people mentioned in this post, only dad and I are still alive, and nowadays, I've have dad living with me not just 3 doors down. But he's happy where he is right now.