Would you move in next door but one to your inlaws?

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Just that, really.

I could, but DH wouldn't!

Yes very happily. I actually lived with my MIL for a year which was OK, but separate houses next-door-but-one would be perfect. We used to live very close to my parents too, and DH was happy with it.

I would, I like them.

Fuuuuuck no.

My MIL lives in a place where everyone knows everyone's business, and pre-pandemic, popped round to each other's houses all the time, uninvited.

She got so close to her next door neighbour that they are now in a relationship and live across both houses.

If we lived that close, I'd either offend her by locking my front door, or leave it unlocked and deal with her taking baths and other liberties in my house.

Depends on your in-laws.
My MIL was wonderful sadly she passed away but my FIL is still 90 and very active. Love him to bits
So yes I would like it especially with COVID and lockdown missed seeing him

Are they old?
Future carer for them?
Do you get on?
I loved my MIL but would not have wanted to live that close

Yes but only because they largely leave us to it and have such a huge garden, we’d still have to drive to visit.

Not if you paid me.

Not a chance. The house next to my parents came up for sale whilst we were looking to upside they were so excited but it was a big fat no from me and DH!!

I'd rather live in a tent in the middle of nowhere than live near my mother in law 😫.
She's the devil 👿

I live very close to my own parents and 20ish mins from my in-laws. We wouldn’t move next door but one from my in-laws unless the house was free and that’s DH saying it, not me!

Yes I would in a heart beat. ❤😆

No.

No but my uncle lived in one house as a child, got married and moved to the house next door (my grandma was still in the first house). He then divorced and moved to the house next door. So in his lifetime, he lived in three houses all next to each other.

Yes for fil but ideally next door so that we could put a gate in the fence and he could take over the gardening for us

No to mil (they are divorced with new partners ) New Zealand would be ideal

My Daughter and Son in Law moved opposite us and lived there for 2 years before buying a house 5 minutes away. It was never a problem. We did have a key and only ever used it when asked. We never turned up without asking. It suited us all

Not a chance

Not a fucking chance!!

Yes. My Mum lives next door, and wouldn't mind at all living next door to my in-laws.

Definitely not.

Nooooo. I love them but MIL has no boundaries and they’d promise to be reasonable and then be round all the time. I don’t think they could resist DH if he was that close.

I wouldn’t move that close to anyone though, not even my best friend.

I'd rather gouge my eyes out with a rusty spoon

I'd rather poke out my own eyes.

I could live by my own family though inc siblings and their families.

I like my in laws, but absolutely not.

They're alright and it's sad we can't see them more as they are 3 hours away. But, probably not, no!