AIBU to forget to change the duvet?

[MimiPigeon]

Can someone please tell me who is BU here? I simply don’t know any more.

DH went away on Wed night for work. My DM (bubble) had a pizza and movies sleepover with me and DC. There are 2 bedrooms so DM slept in the double bed and I slept with DC so she wouldn’t be disturbed. The next day I did all the laundry and cleaned so the house would be nice for the bank holiday weekend. I forgot to change the bedding.

DH came home last night and took his suitcase upstairs. I was in the bathroom washing DC after a poo incident. Then we went upstairs to say hello.

DH didn’t even greet us or kiss us. Instead he started yelling because I hadn’t changed the duvet that my DM had slept on. He was screaming this is the same duvet that was on the bed when I left! Am I supposed to change the duvet at this time of night? We don’t have a clean one because the spare duvet got a hole and was thrown out, so that means I’ll have to strip the bed and sleep with no sheets!

I know I forgot to change the bedding but I just think his behaviour was unacceptable. I went in DCs room and locked the door and I’ve stayed in here all night.

OP that twisted thinking on cooking for special occasions is something else. Does this man actually like you? Or just like torturing you? Dearie me, he sounds pretty awful.

I think it's crazy that some on here needed the updates to realise this man was abusive.

"woman and child lock themselves in room all night because husband is screaming and they are so upset they feel they cant come out"

yes, let's totally ignore that and debate about whether OP is disgusting or not. so happy there were a few initially who had the same mindset as I did.

Hope you are okay OP.