To not want partner having kids here when they're ill?

[Whereso]

Because I'm vulnerable, pregnant in my first trimester after two losses and feel like crap as it is.

They come for their tea twice a week and stay over every other weekend.

His ex had the decency to let him know in advance that they weren't well but he failed to mention that to me and brought them here anyway, they weren't due to stay over and were just coming for tea so he could've easily taken them to the park or picked up a McDonald's/burger king.

Low and behold I've caught whatever it is and have a temp so will need to be tested for covid now, if only to rule it out.

AIBU to be pissed off with him?

@Pomp

I understand completely, I just find it completely unnecessary for people to kick someone while their down. You can express an opinion without the need for the unpleasantness that we've seen on this thread. Some really ugly projection going on.

I agree.

Haven’t read the thread.

YANBU at all. I think drive thru McDonald’s and the park would be a good compromise, and I know my kids would be happy with it.

@Pomp

Any excuse to be an arsehole then. Jesus wept.

Exactly.

I actually can't believe people are proud of their behaviour because "oh this is what AIBU is for"

Jesus christ. I dread to think what these people are like in real life, there is no way you can hide that level of twattishness. I mean, they probably think they do but i would bet any money they dont.

and @Whereso glad to hear about your test being negative, ignore these massive raging arseholes and enjoy the rest of your pregnancy x

*I actually can't believe people are proud of their behaviour because "oh this is what AIBU is for"

Jesus christ. I dread to think what these people are like in real life, there is no way you can hide that level of twattishness. I mean, they probably think they do but i would bet any money they dont.*

Yep.