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To wear this for an interview?

408 replies

youremyperson · 23/03/2021 18:07

It's for a clinical position on a children's ward. I've not interviewed in person for a long time!! Is this professional enough?

To wear this for an interview?
OP posts:
HeelsHandbagPerfumeCoffee · 24/03/2021 18:47

@caspersmagicaljourney

Lovely dress, but wasted on an interview OP. Sorry.😞 Something plain, maybe a bodycon style dress, or something with a smaller pattern would be more apt for an interview. Good luck with the interview btw😁😉
She wore the dress, she got the job.
Poodles23 · 24/03/2021 18:49

Lovely dress but more for a party not an interview.

WombatChocolate · 24/03/2021 18:57

I do wonder about the jobs people work in, who are so categorical that the dress would be entirely inappropriate.

First of all, I suspect many of those posters did not look carefully at the context. Context is really important and there isn’t a correct answer outfit that applies to every single role. This was for a fairly senior role in children’s nursing. Those in clinical roles just aren’t power-dressing suit wearers who are always in navy or black. There is cope for more flexibility and this dress with its pattern and colour is both smart and if worn with the right accessories is professional. Many many women in highly paid positions would wear a dress like this at work with a cardigan or plain jacket. Many in HR interviewing might wear similar.

A plain navy or black suit is fine. It can look good and professional, but you’d be surprised by how many people can wear such an outfit and not look good. Body shapes don’t all lend themselves to it, and sometimes a cheap plain suit doesn’t look great. So it is about dressing yourself and knowing what is appropriate for the environment you are going into.

Perhaps it’s actually those interviewing occasionally or those interviewing for lower paid roles who have more staid and less progressive and modernised views about work clothing...who are so influenced by a bit of colour or pattern and have a very rigid view of appropriate. Those in positions of real power can often be seen in high quality dresses which include colour and pattern. They wouldn’t dream of going to an interview in a drab black pencil skirt and boring old blouse, especially if it didn’t suit their body shape.

So glad op came back to say she got the job. Am sure lots are still sure she did the wrong thing or took a terrible risk though. I really don’t think she did. You want to look capable, confident and professional for most jobs.

Perhaps some jobs don’t actually want someone to be confident or professional or even that capable and feel threatened by someone wearing clothes or suggesting they have those attributes. Some employers certainly just want a skivvy without a mind of their own, and perhaps it those kind of places which have a very narrow and limited idea of what is appropriate. I find it pretty odd that so many were so immediately and conclusively against the idea of a dress in colour or pattern.

busface999 · 24/03/2021 19:02

I came on to give an opinion on the dress, but I see you already got the job!!

Congratulations!!

Alsohuman · 24/03/2021 19:03

@Poodles23

Lovely dress but more for a party not an interview.
She wore the dress and got the job.
HeelsHandbagPerfumeCoffee · 24/03/2021 19:03

Fundamental misunderstanding regards the dress and the post is that as an RN advanced practitioner she’s in demand. There’s a national shortage
Her dress is not the big deal, the op is the big deal.
When you have an in demand skill such as paeds nurse,you select the employer as much as they select you

Despite the protestations and gloomy warnings There’s no rules about attire. It really does not have to be a
Suit
Lil back suit
Blouse
Slacks
Or accessorised with brooch , scarf,

Skyblu · 24/03/2021 19:05

I think it’s a lovely dress, but not appropriate for an interview surely?!

HeelsHandbagPerfumeCoffee · 24/03/2021 19:07

@Skyblu

I think it’s a lovely dress, but not appropriate for an interview surely?!
She wore the dress She got the job Clearly very appropriate
EmmaGrundyForPM · 24/03/2021 19:07

@Skyblu

I think it’s a lovely dress, but not appropriate for an interview surely?!
Except the OP did wear it to the interview and she got the job
HeadNorth · 24/03/2021 19:11

I am so enjoying this thread. It is like that Twitter post on International Women's Day in the response to the many vacuous & ignorant 'when is International Mens's day, then' tweets. Just replace '19 November' with 'she wore the dress she got the job' Grin.

Alsohuman · 24/03/2021 19:11

I think the last time I wore a suit for an interview was about 1996. The last interview I did was about six years ago for a management role. I wore a patterned dress and shoes a lot like these. I got the job and the interviewer asked where I got the shoes!

www.rubyshoo.com/product/1198/collections/Spring_Summer

Spudbyanyothername · 24/03/2021 19:12

Congrats op!

HeelsHandbagPerfumeCoffee · 24/03/2021 19:12

Yup. It’s the emphatic assertion. Gloomy don’t wear that warning.Clearly not read thread

ZenNudist · 24/03/2021 19:14

If the interview is to be Mary poppins

HeelsHandbagPerfumeCoffee · 24/03/2021 19:15

They’re gorgeous shoes, really stylish @Alsohuman

Babyiskickingmyribs · 24/03/2021 19:17

Congratulations OP!

bookclockceiling · 24/03/2021 19:18

too bold and patterny, get something more serious, as gorgeous as it is.

CrankyFrankie · 24/03/2021 19:18

It could work.. if Mary Poppins is the vibe you’re channeling?

caspersmagicaljourney · 24/03/2021 19:18

congratulations OP.
Apologies I've been at work all day so didn't have time read the whole thread.👍🎉

aibutohavethisusername · 24/03/2021 19:20

Congratulations on the job.

HeelsHandbagPerfumeCoffee · 24/03/2021 19:21

@bookclockceiling

too bold and patterny, get something more serious, as gorgeous as it is.
She wore the dress She got the job Clearly emboldened by her bold dress
notacooldad · 24/03/2021 19:28

It could work.. if Mary Poppins is the vibe you’re channeling?
If the interview is to be Mary poppins
'Congratulations Op' may have been a nicer comment instead of being sneary

supperlover · 24/03/2021 19:29

A very pretty dress but not for an interview. I'm a retired nurse, so maybe a bit old school, but I'd have thought a smart suit or dress and jacket more appropriate. Bright colours are fine but not large patterns. Something which makes you look like the professional you are.

LadyfromtheBelleEpoque · 24/03/2021 19:31

@WombatChocolate

That's a really good reply, Wombat. I have often seen/read similar about women in managerial positions, etc - they seem able to have a sense of style and individuality that I think is harder to see in less well paid jobs (which I think is a factor).

I have definitely fallen for the 'keep it simple and black' line in the past but it has been down to budget and I think it limits you - you have to find your confidence to wear a dress like this and that in turn makes you keep your confidence - you can't disappear in it.

LadyfromtheBelleEpoque · 24/03/2021 19:31

www.littlewingsfactory.com/collections/vintage-dresses/products/marianne-black-swing-dress-and-jacket-twin-set

This is also quite fab in a Grace Kelly way

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