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If your husband cheats on you it's because you've let yourself go

146 replies

WhatIsThisShittt · 19/02/2021 09:45

..and not because he's a shitty person.

According to this twit

www.google.com/amp/s/www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/14067488/scummy-mummy-make-effort-husbands-speak-me/amp/

www.dailystar.co.uk/real-life/woman-who-blagged-nhs-nose-23522396

Carla believes many turn into “scummy mummies” who “let themselves go” after having kids.

She argued this is why some of their husbands have wandering eyes and decide to cheat by scrolling through her sexy snaps online.

The glamorous model doesn’t feel guilty about this as she blames the women themselves. She told Fabulous: “Women have let themselves go.

“I hate to say it because I’m a girl’s girl but women just give up on their looks as soon as they have children or get married"

This has made me so angry.

What are your thoughts?

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ItsIgginningtolooklikelockdown · 19/02/2021 09:46

My thoughts? She's a twat who is justifying her own behaviour.

JillsFlapjacks · 19/02/2021 09:47

I think the less attention this eejit gets, the better. That's all she's after.

AgathaX · 19/02/2021 09:48

She's an ignorant fool.

imsureineverdo · 19/02/2021 09:48

My thoughts are that I wouldn’t expect any less from those rags. Yabu for posting them.

Toorapid · 19/02/2021 09:48

She's a wannabe celebrity looking for publicity and look what you've done.

ComDummings · 19/02/2021 09:48

She is trying to provoke outrage and get more attention for her OF page. She would probably say anything to do that. She’s a publicity seeker.

WhatIsThisShittt · 19/02/2021 09:49

Note how her children's father left her regardless of the fact she wears make up and saunters around in lingerie.

What a twat.

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Topseyt · 19/02/2021 09:49

She's a twat and not worth paying any attention to.

Purplecatshopaholic · 19/02/2021 09:50

Seriously, just don’t read this shite!

TakeTheCuntOutOfScunthorpe · 19/02/2021 09:50

Well, it's a point of view. I think she's just like Jordan or Katie Hopkins, spouting "controversial" views to get attention.

Like Jordan or Katie Hopkins, it's best to just ignore them and hope they eventually go away.

The term "scummy mummy" does have a ring to it though...

Fortheloveofdogs44 · 19/02/2021 09:50

I truly think her agent or he self just look for a controversial subject to get people talking about her. Just a marketing ploy.

There are so many reason why people cheat.

Sometimes being obsessed with yourself and your looks actually turns a partner off !

So please ladies do not be hard on yourself. This is just to get her name out and it’s worked.

Unanananana · 19/02/2021 09:51

The only scum here is her. And you've shared her shit. Well done you.

AnneLovesGilbert · 19/02/2021 09:53

Why are you reading the Star? Why are you angry? Does your husband watch porn?

Racoonworld · 19/02/2021 09:53

My husband would leave me if I plastered myself in makeup and wore clothes better suited to teenagers

WhatIsThisShittt · 19/02/2021 09:54

Yes you're probably right, it's for publicity and to get people talking.

Alot like that Josie Cunningham.

It hit a nerve with me personally though as I have been cheated on after having children and wearing less make-up. It hurt to see such things coming from a woman, and mother.

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WhatIsThisShittt · 19/02/2021 09:55

@AnneLovesGilbert

Why are you reading the Star? Why are you angry? Does your husband watch porn?
A friend shared her story on Facebook.

I shared here the first couple of hits from Google.

does your husband watch porn?

I don't have one.

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bonfireheart · 19/02/2021 09:55

Why are women expected to remain "glamorous" as they age but not men?

WhatIsThisShittt · 19/02/2021 09:57

@bonfireheart

Why are women expected to remain "glamorous" as they age but not men?
That's misogyny for you.
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Fembot123 · 19/02/2021 09:58

I feel sorry for her.

Warsawa31 · 19/02/2021 09:59

As as married man :

  1. men are stupid it's not difficult to get them to behave in horrible ways. It's not a victory for her or proof of anything.
  2. she is a shallow, boring fame hungry vacuous person.

Some People don't take their commitment to their partners seriously no one is perfect but to be honest it annoys me how counter productive and short sighted a lot of people are.

It's not the wives or partners fault at all the blame is with the husband or partner, not really this women she is just one of thousands like her who contribute very little to the world really

BlueTimes · 19/02/2021 10:01

It’s just click bait.

jaffar · 19/02/2021 10:03

Some men do cheat for that reason.

Some men cheat for other reasons.

The logic isn't the issue, the goadiness is, which is deliberate.

Inpersuitofhappiness · 19/02/2021 10:04

Haha, well where do we start?
This single woman, seems to be holding a trophy that some married men wank over her. Lets not forget the cost of that for her. Wasnt the sentiment women who spoil their kids and not themselves are scummy mummies? ...and her eldest chooses not to live with her.

Alrighty then.

I see someone to be pitied.

Figgygal · 19/02/2021 10:04

She’s a vacuous twat looking for attention
Her views are Not worth people’s time

Theunamedcat · 19/02/2021 10:05

The paper trolls her openly in the "article" her eldest daughter doesn't live with her she faked depression to get a nose job and didn't buy her kids Christmas presents they are showing you who the real scum is even the whole earned almost 40,000 thing that's not big money