If your husband cheats on you it's because you've let yourself go

[WhatIsThisShittt]

..and not because he's a shitty person.

According to this twit

www.google.com/amp/s/www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/14067488/scummy-mummy-make-effort-husbands-speak-me/amp/

www.dailystar.co.uk/real-life/woman-who-blagged-nhs-nose-23522396

Carla believes many turn into “scummy mummies” who “let themselves go” after having kids.

She argued this is why some of their husbands have wandering eyes and decide to cheat by scrolling through her sexy snaps online.

The glamorous model doesn’t feel guilty about this as she blames the women themselves. She told Fabulous: “Women have let themselves go.

“I hate to say it because I’m a girl’s girl but women just give up on their looks as soon as they have children or get married"

This has made me so angry.

What are your thoughts?

Some women have no idea of sisterhood. Ignore her and ignore these misogynistic rags.

@Wetalkedaboutthis a whore is a woman who prostitutes herself for money - exactly what this woman does. The only thing repellent here is in those articles she admits to getting her kids to take naked topless pictures of her.

I couldn’t take my eyes of the socks either, WTF .
I can see why it upset you OP but honestly, don’t give it head space, she’s a twat and probably a very insecure one at that.

*off

@MissMarpleDarling

Stupid woman. My cousins dick of a husband cheated 3 times, each time when she was heavily pregnant/after the birth as he has 'needs' too. Idiots.

3 times?

Whilst not agreeing with this in it’s entirety, I do feel that it is disrespectful to your partner, whoever you are, by not making the effort to look after yourself.
The idea that ‘I am married now, so there’s no need to wear make-up/shave/dress nicely’, when you did all those things before.
We all want to slump on the sofa in pjs sometimes, but not every day!
I also don’t subscribe to the ‘my husband would leave me, if I put make-up on/dressed fashionably etc., in case I am making myself look too attractive to others’. Good grief!!
There is a happy medium surely? I dress to please myself, and enjoy taking pride in my appearance.
If you would dress with thought, put on make-up maybe, to meet with friends or family, attend a party, go to work etc., then why wouldn’t you do the same for your partner?

[quote ChancesWhatChances]@Wetalkedaboutthis a whore is a woman who prostitutes herself for money - exactly what this woman does. The only thing repellent here is in those articles she admits to getting her kids to take naked topless pictures of her.[/quote]
A whore is a misogynist name used against women. It's been used for years to categorise and insult women. It's a woman hating word in much the same way as slag, or slut. You should be ashamed of yourself, instead of attempting to justify it. Things remain this way because women like you, prop it up.

I don't know why this woman is behaving the way she is, there could be a myriad of reasons but don't join in with the woman hating mud slinging.

Attention seeking sex worker?
Business woman using her body as a product?

All I see is a woman doing a job with no credibility. Great if it pays for her but it's a grim way to make money.

Personally, I could not give a shit about her story.

Men who cheat weren’t worth having in the first place.

@poppyzbrite4 I totally agree with you on the misogynistic use of "whore", I hate it and all the other words used to denigrate women.

If I was gonna take advice from someone as to the secrets of a long and happy marriage... it wouldn’t be from a woman who’s been dumped by multiple men.

@poppyzbrite4 I have absolutely no shame whatsoever for calling a woman like that a whore. She’s not doing it because she’s been forced into it and she’s actively harming children in the process while gloating about cheating husbands and blaming other women for that. She has fully earned the word.

"Husbands wank over me" and "mums have let themselves go."
The last one especially made me lol considering she doesn't look that great herself.

I agree with you 100% @poppyzbrite4 but you can’t explain things to some people so I wouldn’t bother. That word brings shame on the user not whoever they are flinging it at.

I'd agree that shitty shallow self centred men who married someone solely for their looks are more likely to wander off in search of some other fake reality. BUT are those men really worth having? This woman is apparently suffering from the illusion that those men are worth it and not placing her own and the value of others above that of a painting. Which is sad.

Husbands wank over me
Maybe I am a prude but I wouldn’t think that was something to advertise.
The very thought is a bit 🤮

@Fembot123 no it brings your perception of shame, but you can’t allocate shame to someone that feels none. You may think there’s shame there, it doesn’t make it so. In the long run of everything your opinion on me and what I think of others means diddly squat, just as my opinion of the woman in question means diddly squat to her.

Don’t read misogynistic rags like the Daily Star.

[quote ChancesWhatChances]@Fembot123 no it brings your perception of shame, but you can’t allocate shame to someone that feels none. You may think there’s shame there, it doesn’t make it so. In the long run of everything your opinion on me and what I think of others means diddly squat, just as my opinion of the woman in question means diddly squat to her.[/quote]
Why are you responding to my post to another user if it means ‘diddly squat’ to you. I can’t listen to anyone who thinks it’s an appropriate word to use, we literally have nothing to say to each other. 😖

She looks nothing like her photos she's a total catfish, this is her without all of the airbrushing.

She's average at best. I know women in their 40's and 50's who've had no work done yet look stunning in comparison to her at 38 after thousands wasted on surgery.

Top grade catfish!