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What do we think about THIS....Trigger warning - Graphic Image **title edited by MNHQ

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Nothappywiththis · 14/02/2021 15:36

I’m not in support of thus. AIBU??

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DedlyMedally · 15/02/2021 21:12

@Winesalot

If you can’t tell looking at the build, you have a very interesting expectation of a female’s physique.
What part of the "build" are you talking about?
rawalpindithelabrador · 15/02/2021 21:18

What part of the "build" are you talking about?

Some people are deliberately obtuse. Hmm

PotholeParadies · 15/02/2021 21:22

Hover your thumb over their faces and then glance out of the corner of your eye and see which sex your brain tells you each competitor is. Brains pretty good at that for most of us.

Believe it or not, humans didn't spend the past few thousand years needing to ask, "psst, are you the kind of human that has a penis or the kind that can give birth?"

SheldonesqueIsUnwell · 15/02/2021 21:24

I find the zapata five o’clock shadow quite impressive.

Despite pcos sproutage and a randomly hirsute menopause, I’ve never managed that. Not even close.

I can’t be living my life as a woman well enough..

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 15/02/2021 21:28

@rawalpindithelabrador

What part of the "build" are you talking about?

Some people are deliberately obtuse. Hmm

They have to be. Because their whole mindset is based on a lie - that people can change sex and/or that sex is irrelevant.

If your core belief is a lie, you have to keep bolstering it with more lies.

Biscuitsanddoombar · 15/02/2021 21:37

@rawalpindithelabrador

What part of the "build" are you talking about?

Some people are deliberately obtuse. Hmm

Aren’t they just!
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Thislittlefinger123 · 15/02/2021 21:45

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334bu · 15/02/2021 21:47

Mm?

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Syeknom · 15/02/2021 22:04

I thought this would never affect me, I even argued with my mum about it in defense of people just wanting to get on with their lives and being blind to the impact this would have on women.

I am not a national standard fell runner but I have friends that are and have been. I've raced against Lauren and lost a place as a result. I remember at the time thinking to myself that they look just like a man, how could that be, maybe they were just lucky to be so tall and thin? I don't know what to think about them being in a women's prison, but from a sporting point of view, it just isn't sporting. They have the bone structure and build of a post puberty male and for me personally I had my period on the day I raced them which makes me even more cross.

Sport is great and everyone should be welcome. In fell running everyone normally sets off on the same course all at once anyway so however you viewed yourself it would make no difference (unlike combat sports). I like running with lots of different folk but I want my results to just be counted against other women on the score sheet. They could have still run the same races and taken part by ticking male, they just wouldn't have been able to be the women's fell running champion.

BBC News - Lauren Jeska jailed for Alexander Stadium stabbings
www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-birmingham-39266777

Smallgoon · 15/02/2021 22:30

@MissLucyEyelesbarrow

I work on the basis then when someone’s entire case rests on not understanding facts they’ll continue to not understand them for reasons

I am increasingly of the opinion that Smallgoon is one of my fellow vipers from Feminism Chat who has named changed -she's doing such an excellent job of demonstrating the weakness of arguments in favour of TW in women's sport.

Carry on Smallgoon, carry on. You're now down to 'Someone who plays a sport professionally may be better at it than my brother who doesn't play it at all'. I can't wait to see what we get next Grin

I've never name changed since joining MN. But if it makes you feel better.
Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/02/2021 22:35

They have to be. Because their whole mindset is based on a lie - that people can change sex and/or that sex is irrelevant.

If your core belief is a lie, you have to keep bolstering it with more lies.

Smallgoon · 15/02/2021 22:37

@TriflePudding

smallgoon

You appear to be arguing that the women who are assaulted, beaten and raped by men could in fact fight them off if they wanted to... is that what you are saying ?

What a nasty post.

Me believing it's wrong to automatically assume a male sport star would outperform a female sport star, equates to the above does it?

SylviaPlath1984 · 15/02/2021 22:40

@Smallgoon
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What a nasty post.

Me believing it's wrong to automatically assume a male sport star would outperform a female sport star, equates to the above does it?*
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Yes.

334bu · 15/02/2021 22:46

Me believing it's wrong to automatically assume a male sport star would outperform a female sport star, equates to the above does it?

Maybe not but it does show that you have absolutely no idea about the reality of male and female sport.
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An elite male athlete will beat an elite female athlete every time. Did you not read any of the statistics posted upthread?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 15/02/2021 22:46

It's ridiculous to deny that most men are stronger than most women, in any circumstances.

DedlyMedally · 15/02/2021 22:56

@rawalpindithelabrador

What part of the "build" are you talking about?

Some people are deliberately obtuse. Hmm

Not at all, I've just seen powerfully built sprinters before. I'm assume that that's what you're using as "evidence" because the pictures are too low res to make out any significant facial features. Type "women's sprinter" into Google and you will see a lot of capped delts (which plenty of men do not have). If that's not your basks, I honestly have no idea how you're markers you're using.
Smallgoon · 15/02/2021 22:56

@ShotgunShack

I remember a person on MN once arguing that women might invent new Olympic sports, such as the low level limbo where they would be able to try and continue competing.

Smallgoon was it you by any chance?

No it wasn't me. But that has made me laugh.
334bu · 15/02/2021 23:00

Not at all, I've just seen powerfully built sprinters before. I'm assume that that's what you're using as "evidence" because the pictures are too low res to make out any significant facial features.

LOL😂😂😂😂

Winesalot · 15/02/2021 23:06

Indeed 334bu.

youvegottenminuteslynn · 15/02/2021 23:08

@334bu

*Me believing it's wrong to automatically assume a male sport star would outperform a female sport star, equates to the above does it?*

Maybe not but it does show that you have absolutely no idea about the reality of male and female sport.
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An elite male athlete will beat an elite female athlete every time. Did you not read any of the statistics posted upthread?

This. So much this! It undermines your contribution to an important debate when you deny the statistical facts.
PotholeParadies · 15/02/2021 23:10

Syeknom

Thank you for posting. That's a really important contribution you've made. I wonder how many women's achievements were eclipsed by Jeska's decision to register as a woman during their running career.

Winesalot · 15/02/2021 23:18

Actually Syeknom, that must have been unnerving to discover.

Smallgoon · 15/02/2021 23:30

[quote SylviaPlath1984]@Smallgoon
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What a nasty post.

Me believing it's wrong to automatically assume a male sport star would outperform a female sport star, equates to the above does it?*
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Yes.[/quote]
Do you always have such a victim mentality?

Smallgoon · 15/02/2021 23:31

@SummerBlondey

The people posting pics of transwoman who appear much taller than their teammates etc... You do realise that the greatest footballer in the world is 5'6 and has quite a slight build compared to other footballers, yes? Being bigger doesn't necessarily equate to being better

FFS. You do realise, that a 5ft 6 male footballer would out perform a 5ft 6 female footballer though? So, if they decided next week to go by the name of Barbara, they should NEVER be allowed on the women's football team

I have to wonder if some people are really hard of thinking.

Why would the male footballer outperform the female footballer?
PurpleRainDancer · 15/02/2021 23:33

This is appalling these fights should never have been allowed. The world has gone mad