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Hand hold please - on train trying to rush to London to get to my dad before he dies

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africanantelope · 17/01/2021 16:48

Dad had a heart attack on Friday night, heart was not beating on and off for 2 and a half hours :( he had surgery but brain damage is bad and meds are no longer keeping him alive. Because of covid and having 3 kids I wasn't sure I'd be able to get to see him. I'm now on my way hoping I make it in time, we're weren't allowed in the hospital until we had the call. I just wish I'd come earlier but I don't drive and knew I'd be frozen just waiting outside. Also was told it could be hours days or weeks. I'm so angry at myself and just hope I make it in time. He was only 66 and healthy. Hand hold please lovely mumneters this train really isn't moving fast enough Blush

OP posts:
AbbeyBelfast · 17/01/2021 17:07

I hope you make it in time ❤️❤️

Bunbunbunny · 17/01/2021 17:08

Thinking of you op x

What hospital are you going to? Sometimes tube is quicker than taxi. have a look at Citymapper app it will tell you which way it thinks will be faster

russiancurry · 17/01/2021 17:08

Don't be angry with yourself, these are very difficult times and we have enough to deal with without beating yourself up.

Flowers
AngelDelightUK · 17/01/2021 17:08

Hope you get there swiftly and safely x

africanantelope · 17/01/2021 17:09

Thank you all so much. Typing that out really helped with the journey. I'm getting ready to run to the tube when I get off at st Pancras in 5 mins. Will be quicker on the tube then in a taxi as I've got to get to Hammersmith hospital (East Acton tube station) which will be a nightmare above ground. Will book an Uber from the tube to the hospital when I'm nearly there x

OP posts:
beelover · 17/01/2021 17:09

Thinking of you xx

TheLadyGrayson · 17/01/2021 17:10

Sorry OP, I really hope you make it xxx

KimNotElllen · 17/01/2021 17:10

Sending lots of love x Thanks

BlowDryRat · 17/01/2021 17:10

Good luck OP Flowers

Mummyoflittledragon · 17/01/2021 17:10
Flowers
quicklybeingdrivenmad · 17/01/2021 17:11

So hope you make it hunni been there with both of my parents its not good, thinking off you

Denzelstowel · 17/01/2021 17:12
Thanks
mbosnz · 17/01/2021 17:12

Handhold from me. Speedy travels. Flowers

owmn · 17/01/2021 17:12

Sending all the love and hopes for a speedy tube journey.

dontlikebeards · 17/01/2021 17:12

Hand hold, sending love x

SheldonesqueIsUnwell · 17/01/2021 17:13

A fat hand from me.

Wishing you time and strength Flowers x

HoofWankingSpangleCunt · 17/01/2021 17:13

Sending a handhold and a big cup of Brew for the journey. I'm so sorry.

atotalshambles · 17/01/2021 17:13

Hang on in there , OP I’m so sorry about your dad.

BrumBoo · 17/01/2021 17:14

Whatever happens, remember it's not the end that matters but everything that has brought you there. Your dad will know you love him, you've had a lifetime of love and memories together. Much thoughts to you, your dad and your family Flowers.

Cosmothecat · 17/01/2021 17:14

I'm so sorry this is happening. Sending you love, strength and speed xo

GrinchnotHinch · 17/01/2021 17:15

Sending love Flowers try not to think of all the what ifs, you’re being amazingly strong right now ❤️

132orbust · 17/01/2021 17:15

Where (what station) are you getting into and what hospital do you need to travel to?
We might be able to give you advice on quick routes Flowers

MrsCalypsoGrant · 17/01/2021 17:15

Good luck with the journey OP, I'm willing you along. You're a good daughter Thanks

LagunaBubbles · 17/01/2021 17:15

Thinking of you

BlueSuffragette · 17/01/2021 17:15

So sorry OP. Hand hold from me. Hope you make it.

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