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To think remainers should have got behind mays deal

256 replies

Mysusie · 17/01/2021 12:48

Just that really. Surely it would have been better to support a moderate brexit that she offered rather than supporting extreme positions such as that if the Lib Dem’s. Aibu to think it was an error not to sign up the the chequers deal?

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ExitChasedByABear · 17/01/2021 17:03

@Scrunchy95

I was under the impression that Brexiters didn't like May's deal as it didn't sever us enough from the EU.
I agree. That’s what I thought as well.
singsingbluesilver · 17/01/2021 17:04

Oh no you don't. Don't go shifting the blame onto remainers. Those who voted for Brexit have got exactly what they voted for.

SerendipityJane · 17/01/2021 17:16

Don't go shifting the blame

Top tune !

(boogieing around the kitchen Smile)

AethelsWhiteGoose · 17/01/2021 17:18

I think you need to ask Boris and the ERG why they did not vote for May’s deal before pointing fingers at remainers.

Kendodd · 17/01/2021 17:26

If you're in any doubt about this op why not think about it this way - in the years to come, who do you think our young people will blame for Brexit, the people who voted for Brexit or the people who didn't vote for Brexit?

This thread really shows there no hope for Leave voters at all. Instead of blaming the lying cheating politicians and campaigners, who worked hard on you for many years to fill your head with lies about the EU, no, no blame for them. Instead you blame the people who didn't vote for Brexit and tried very hard to point out Farage and co were lying to you.

Port1aCastis · 17/01/2021 17:30

If you voted for this shit own it stop passing the buck
You did it it's your fault you can no longer blame remainers.
I didn't go on those marches to take blame
We told you so

luckylavender · 17/01/2021 17:32

Firstly there's a Brexit board. Secondly frankly, I'm as Remain as they come but I'd fed up of mainly Brexiteers carping on and on about it. You won, own it. Move on.

Port1aCastis · 17/01/2021 17:35

Precisely
You won
You kept feckin telling us you did over and over for 4 years or more
Own your shit!

MaxNormal · 17/01/2021 17:46

The ERG weren't having it, and they're the ones with the power, not the poor bastards who voted Remain.
You're blaming the wrong people here.

Daphnise · 17/01/2021 18:03

It's done now.

Speculation on the past is utterly pointless.

There was a majority vote to leave, and we have left.

Those who don't like it are no longer relevant, as we have left.

By the way, May voted for the PM's deal.

Jason118 · 17/01/2021 18:08

@Daphnise don't tell me I'm not relevant - I will continue to point out how fucking dumb Brexit is until my dying day, and will ask anyone who professes a love for the project, what it feels like to fucked over?

peak2021 · 17/01/2021 18:10

Sadly the act of economic self-harm has been done and Northern Ireland in particular seems to be impacted more.

Just remember when ever you vote who brought this upon you. Mind you, minor compared to the incompetence of Mr Johnson in the handling of the Covid 19 pandemic.

Peregrina · 17/01/2021 18:13

Those who don't like it are every bit as relevant. Governments are supposed to govern for all, not just their cronies or those who agree with them.

Time for Leavers to get stuck in and make it work. I don't see much of that happening.

Thankyouforwatchingbyebye · 17/01/2021 18:16

I am waiting for one of you to tell one a benefit , just one would do

The benefit that most cite (and that most remainers continually ignore despite being told over and over) is that we won’t have politicians from other countries imposing laws on our country that we can’t vote out.

I’m not saying I agree with that but I see the point. It’s ideological. They simply want our sovereignty back. They don’t want politicians we can’t vote out telling us what to do. Simple as that.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 17/01/2021 18:16

Those who don't like it are no longer relevant, as we have left

😀

Youre not relevant either chum

Cant be a leaver if we’ve left

Peregrina · 17/01/2021 18:19

Leave.EU did try a move to Ireland, but it hasn't worked out for them with their account suspended.

Good question though - Remainers can turn into Rejoiners but where do Leavers go now?

Lifetheuniverseandeverything · 17/01/2021 18:22

No one to blame but leave voters. There was never going to be any other outcome with the ‘ERG’ and Bannon behind it all.

Port1aCastis · 17/01/2021 18:23

I am and always will be relevant
I have a vote

unmarkedbythat · 17/01/2021 18:26

Look, remainers didn't want a referendum. We didn't vote for Brexit. We didn't vote for a Tory government. We do not have to own it. It's not our mistake and we did tell everyone what a mistake it was. So, no, we should not have 'got behind May's deal': we did our part, leavers and Tories did this and will have to live with it.

Thankyouforwatchingbyebye · 17/01/2021 18:27

but at the time the majority of people were against Brexit

No they weren’t. The only evidence that exists is that the majority of voters voted for Brexit. There is no concrete evidence at all that the majority of people were against Brexit. Quite the opposite.

wigornian · 17/01/2021 18:27

Sorry to derail but the “citizens of nowhere” line was a hamfisted attack on globe trotting tycoons like Philip Green. Unfortunately in the frebile times it was misrepresented by both sides! Tim Shipman’s 2nd volume on Brexit covers it.

Charlottejbt · 17/01/2021 18:28

May’s deal was a very hard Brexit. The only advantage would’ve been a longer transition period (assuming she’d got the deal through in early 2019). It would also have made Irish reunification less of a pressing matter.

This, exactly. At the time, I felt remainers should have got behind TM's deal, but mostly in order to avoid No Deal (deliberate or accidental) which seemed a more likely outcome than a second referendum. Most (all?) of the economic damage done so far has been a direct and predictable consequence of leaving the Single Market, so no great difference between May's deal and Johnson's in the long run. It would have been preferable to have had certainty earlier, though.

FrippEnos · 17/01/2021 18:28

JulesJules

And if Brexiters don't like what we've ended up with - well you voted for it. Own it and stop trying to blame the people who didn't vote for it

Technically only MPs voted for the deal that we have.

Nobody that voted remain or leave has had any say in what has go on since the referendum.

unmarkedbythat · 17/01/2021 18:31

Nobody that voted remain or leave has had any say in what has go on since the referendum.

We've had two general elections since the referendum.

CherryRoulade · 17/01/2021 18:32

@SerendipityJane

We are not generally remainers now - I identify as a rejoiner for my UK citizenship but remain very firmly a European, as I shall identify in the census.

If it's an option.

I think there is going to be an ‘other’ box with space below to write European.
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