To wonder if anyone has used a male prositute

[SparklyLeopard]

Ive NC for this as I'm a regular and this is a bit random I know! I've had a few relationships over the years and not been really satisfied with sex. Find myself fantasising about being with a man who is a real expert. Not sure I could ever have the nerve to do so and would have no idea where to start! And certainly not now for obvious reasons but I'm curious and would love to hear about other's experiences.

Hi Op
😕 Have you thought of exploring the idea of looking into sexual Therapy?
if you are not happy(unsatisfied with sexual experiences in your Past...

I wait to be Flamboreed by the Pitch forks/fire brigade now I have made that suggestion.! L.o.l 😂

Initially I thought yes, life’s short, go for it.

Then I remembered an occasion I was in a local gym’s jacuzzi with a friend, and this older bloke got in with 2 much younger ladies, and they were stroking his thinning hair and trying to wrap their skinny arms around his beer gut and I just felt so sorry for all 3 of them

It is legal to sell yourself/ body for sex afaik from an AMA female prostitute she paid her Tax and NI as a sex worker.
I think it is okay if you work alone not running a brothel.

No, to me sex is all about love

Sex and love do not need to to go hand in hand @Kanaloa, yes it’s lovely that you love the man you have sex with, but you also seem to be incredibly naive. I’ve had plenty of great sex with people who I barely know, no love, just great sex. Quit being so tunnel visioned. Op wasn’t asking about buying live or affection or friendship, just a good honest satisfying shag.

No, but because I have vulvodynia/dyspareunia. Any thought of something going in me makes me utterly cringe.

@TammyHullfigure

Expert? Are you for real? Sex is about chemistry, passion, attraction.... You will not get that with a prostitute. You will be a business transaction.

Have to agree with this. The best sex is about chemistry and attraction. Hiring a prostitute is more like an expensive wank.

No. I think paying for sex is wrong and true consent can not be given.

Women should not buy men’s bodies and men sure as hell shouldn’t buy women’s. The human body is not a workplace.

@TheChampagneGalop

Yoni massage! Brian is that you?

😂😂😂

@CutToChase

"What is AMA for a male prostitute mean then"?
Out of Curiosity.😕

@Somuddled

Of course I wouldn't because you can't buy consent and therefore I would be sexually abusing them.

Oh Jesus!

[quote Balhammom]@Awalkintime

My plumber wouldn’t mend my boiler for free in real life either. Is it coercive that I pay him?

Nope, just another legitimate job.[/quote]
If it’s just another job you will be suggesting it as a profession to your kids along with all the others?

And I don’t think you can buy a ‘satisfying shag’ because I wouldn’t be satisfied to know I had to pay for someone to want to have sex with me. I think it’s better to be naive than to be able to enjoy sex with someone who isn’t enjoying it.

No but I knew on once.

Well, he fitted my bathroom and we got chatting.

His dad owned an escort company and he worked for him on the side. I found that really grim.

@Kanaloa

And I don’t think you can buy a ‘satisfying shag’ because I wouldn’t be satisfied to know I had to pay for someone to want to have sex with me. I think it’s better to be naive than to be able to enjoy sex with someone who isn’t enjoying it.

Isn't that the crux of the matter, if someone feels satisfied by paid for sex then by definition they are not interested in it being a mutual experience they do not care if the other person is revolted they only care about their own pleasure or perhaps their pleasure is increased by knowing that the other person is revolted but has to do it anyway?

I see the OP hasn't been back in a while..

OP get yourself on Tinder and say you're up for casual sex. The men who advertise themselves as male prostitutes just fancy themselves as ladies men and want lots of sex

[quote RickJames](Haven't RTFT, so may have already been posted)

[/quote] 😂😂😂😂👌👌👌

If it’s just another job you will be suggesting it as a profession to your kids along with all the others?

There's plenty of high risk jobs that I wouldn't be suggesting to my kids as a profession. Selling sex is one of them. It doesn't mean it isn't a legitimate job (for those who have genuinely chosen to do so.).

@Coyoacan

When I was younger I met young men in tourist parts of Mexico who lived off female tourists. It was really sad to see that effect of tourism.

Did you see that programme that was on recently about young men in the Dominican Republic? It was a bit creepy and weird.

@Opheliaa

If it’s just another job you will be suggesting it as a profession to your kids along with all the others?

There's plenty of high risk jobs that I wouldn't be suggesting to my kids as a profession. Selling sex is one of them. It doesn't mean it isn't a legitimate job (for those who have genuinely chosen to do so.).

Do you think it should be included in school career guidance?

Or that those claiming unemployment benefits should be obliged to take it up or risk losing those benefits?

If it's a 'legitimate' job, then surely the answer to both of the above will be 'yes'.

@OutwiththeOutCrowd

"Didn't know there is such a thing as a male professional Hugger".

" Rather than scratching a itch" L.o.l😁

Hell no. I have more self respect than to pay a random man for sex.

@NoProblem123

😕"Ewww Jucuzzi experience"
" I can amagine you rather forget"

Why don’t you save yourself the leg work and put a wanted poster up ?
You can be really specific on the details that way, and have a few in reserve.

@Opheliaa

If it’s just another job you will be suggesting it as a profession to your kids along with all the others?

There's plenty of high risk jobs that I wouldn't be suggesting to my kids as a profession. Selling sex is one of them. It doesn't mean it isn't a legitimate job (for those who have genuinely chosen to do so.).

Yeah because the only reason you’d not recommend it to your kids is because it’s ‘high risk’.

In fact, some escorts say it’s not particularly risky in the right circumstances.