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To feel too fat to run in daylight 😔

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Trulyatraditionalman · 14/01/2021 08:49

Hi all. I'm 31 and on the wrong side of 15st, and am currently doing Couch to 5k whilst trying to make healthier choices in general. I just can't shake the idea that everyone is staring at me when I'm out and about, so I only go on runs in the dark! I'm absolutely terrified of being heckled (I was bullied for my weight at school). The problem is that I also feel unsafe out running in the dark, so it's a catch-22!

For someone very overweight, I actually feel like I have relatively good fitness levels and don't get puffed out on my runs until the very end. I absolutely love running and wish I didn't feel so self conscious.

Am I being totally unreasonable to feel like this?

YABU - People don't give two figs what size you are when you're running, just crack on whatever time of day
YANBU - It's understandable/I've had experience feeling the same way.

Feel free to give me a stern talking to!

OP posts:
catsjammies · 15/01/2021 10:17

When I see people running (slim or large) I honestly think 'I wish I had their motivation' or something similar. I would never judge! Get out there with your fabulous self and run if it makes you feel great!

HeadNorth · 15/01/2021 12:50

runners don't take the piss out of runners.

This is so true - so you are certainly doing better than any of the sad acts shouting out who couldn't run the length of themselves.

Anyway OP, you inspired me to get out for a run today despite the horrible chilly damp fog. And it was ace Grin

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