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Capitol Hill and the next 2 weeks (Trump #118)

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Roussette · 07/01/2021 10:52

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4128051-Coup-on-Capitol-Hill-Trump-117

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Roussette · 09/01/2021 11:25

I don't know Josh Hawley but has Ted Cruz got much respect out there?

Trump insulted his wife's looks and said that his father was instrumental in JFK assassination. And that was only in 2016. Cruz rolled over and took it. Shock
Nothing like standing up for your family is there?

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buttery81 · 09/01/2021 11:27

Just as well he is teetotal - can you imagine him with a few whiskies in him?

Shock
buttery81 · 09/01/2021 11:29

I feel for Melania right now. He must be a total nightmare to live with, more than ever!! Especially as he has no outlet due to Twitter being suspended.

TooTrueToBeGood · 09/01/2021 11:29

The other option is for someone to step into Trump's shoes. Which is exactly what Ted Cruz, Josh Hawley and the others were up to. Like it or not, the Republican base has never been so active and motivated. 75 million votes isn't something they will abandon lightly. Outside of Trump's odious persona and constant gaffs is a set of policies that the ultra right wing love to bits. They just need someone like Donald who can hoodwink ordinary Joes into thinking that that such policies represent them and are for them.

Agreed, but how do they do that exactly? Trump isn't going to slink away voluntarily, he's too obsessed with being in the limelight. And if the try and distance themselves from him they risk alienating his hardcore base. I can't see any easy answers other than him conveniently shuffling off his mortal coil.

ThatIsNotMyUsername · 09/01/2021 11:30

She bought into it and stuck it out. No sympathy. The whole house is huge - she can avoid him for days.

buttery81 · 09/01/2021 11:30

I wonder if she will stay with him now - or whether she’s planning to hotfoot it out of there at the earliest opportunity...

ThatIsNotMyUsername · 09/01/2021 11:30

Depends on the prenup I assume. I feel sorry for the kid - if he doesn’t see it for himself I’m sure his classmates will bring him up to speed.

Jaichangecentfoisdenom · 09/01/2021 11:31

I'm assuming if there hadn't been Twitter, Trump wouldn't have got to where he is today? No, sorry, journalists on all media platforms have contributed hugely to his popularity by unquestioningly reporting his every move as if he were God and couldn't be criticised. Had he been deprived of the oxygen of media coverage from the start of his lies about the size of his inauguration crowd, the US (and arguably the world) wouldn't be in the place it's in now. (Apologies for repeating myself, I'm sure I must have said this here before now.)

buttery81 · 09/01/2021 11:33

No, sorry, journalists on all media platforms have contributed hugely to his popularity by unquestioningly reporting his every move as if he were God and couldn't be criticised.

Really? I think he’s had a LOT of criticism in the media - that’s why he hates them!

Roussette · 09/01/2021 11:33

Melania will have left him by the Spring. She has rarely been at the WH anyway, and been staying up near her parents with Barron.
Donald will have outlived his usefulness for her.

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BlueCatRedCat · 09/01/2021 11:33

@Roussette

I don't know Josh Hawley but has Ted Cruz got much respect out there?

Trump insulted his wife's looks and said that his father was instrumental in JFK assassination. And that was only in 2016. Cruz rolled over and took it. Shock
Nothing like standing up for your family is there?

From what I have seen, Cruz was considered to be a leading light in the Republican Party before 2016. However, he has completely debased himself by licking the shoes of the man who, as you say, has gravely insulted his family. Certainly in the media, there is barely disguised contempt for him, but he's been re-elected in Texas during the Trump era. So clearly he has both ground roots support and no principles whatsoever, which will make him an excellent candidate for the job.
ThatIsNotMyUsername · 09/01/2021 11:35

Is she 50 now? What age do men like that usually decide to trade in for a newer model? Sounds cruel I know but I remember when some of the mums were turning 40 at ds school and the flurry of exercise and beauty regimes rocketed (the ones I am thinking of were the 2nd or 3rd wives...)

buttery81 · 09/01/2021 11:38

Its well known Trump is not easy to work for.

According to this article “he is reported to be a generous and fair-minded boss”. I can’t imagine it myself!

www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2016/06/the-mind-of-donald-trump/480771/

BlueCatRedCat · 09/01/2021 11:39

@Jaichangecentfoisdenom

I'm assuming if there hadn't been Twitter, Trump wouldn't have got to where he is today? No, sorry, journalists on all media platforms have contributed hugely to his popularity by unquestioningly reporting his every move as if he were God and couldn't be criticised. Had he been deprived of the oxygen of media coverage from the start of his lies about the size of his inauguration crowd, the US (and arguably the world) wouldn't be in the place it's in now. (Apologies for repeating myself, I'm sure I must have said this here before now.)
The media were culpable before he was elected. In the primaries and run up to the 2016 election, he had massive media coverage, far more than any other candidate. He was comedy gold back then, good for ratings, much more interesting than the other boring candidates, nobody but a few sages like Michael Moore were taking him seriously as the next potential president.
Destinysdaughter · 09/01/2021 11:41

On CNN just now they said that Alan Derscowitz has indicated his willingness to defend Trump!

Roussette · 09/01/2021 11:42

Melania will hook up with some other rich billionaire... look at the likes of Jerry Hall marrying Rupert Murdoch. He's not a catch for anyone for all sorts of reasons except for his billions.

If anyone likes Netflix series... I really enjoyed The Loudest Voice. Fascinating about the start of Fox News, how it came about, Roger Ailes, sexual harrassment etc. Ailes was the one who drove the right wing agenda for Fox. I don't like Russell Crowe but he played a blinder, and the Rupert Murdoch actor was uncannily like him. It was worth watching.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Loudest_Voice#:~:text=The%20Loudest%20Voice%20is%20a,30%2C%202019%2C%20on%20Showtime.

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itsgettingweird · 09/01/2021 11:42

@YippeeKayakOtherBuckets

I read it as letting his people know he’s not in the firing line when they blow up the inauguration.
Woah that thought sent a shiver down my spine
ThatIsNotMyUsername · 09/01/2021 11:46

Jerry hall married Murdock? I’d forgotten that. Jackie Onassis...

Yohoheaveho · 09/01/2021 11:47

If Trump wanted to trade in Melania in for a new model...well I just can't imagine anyone volunteering, he would think that he ought to have someone young and attractive ...surely no one would be willing😶
Of course we all know that really he believes his daughter ought to be willing, his ultimate fantasy would be to impregnate her and have this child the emperor of the world

Roussette · 09/01/2021 11:48

Yes. Jerry Hall and murdoch... I wonder why....

I was going to say Jackie Onassis too.

I would put money on Melania being with someone else this time next year.

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RedToothBrush · 09/01/2021 11:49

@dreamingbohemian

Until liberal democracies remember what principles liberal democracy is founded on they are going to have problems.

Let's see, what were some of the principles and 'truths' that liberal democracy was founded on?

Black Africans were property and could be tortured and worked to death
Women had no political or civil rights
Only wealthy white men had full voting rights and political power
Indigenous people everywhere could be slaughtered and colonised

Those are also the roots of liberal democracy. Those beliefs have never fully disappeared -- indeed, this is the world that all those Trumpists want to maintain. At heart, what they are fighting for is the ongoing dominance of white men over everyone else.

So I would rather say, until we all acknowledge the historical reality of liberal democracy and its ongoing legacy, we will have problems.

I think we do have to examine the reality of that legacy. But ultimately isn't that just the principles being demonstrated? Material reality is catching up.

FWIW, I also think we have similar outstanding questions to answer on the Iraq and Afghanistan wars. And I do think in time that will happen.

Adam Curtis's Hypernormalisation (which is on BBC iplayer) talks about the subject and if you are in the UK and haven't seen it, its worth a watch. It is heavy and hard work though as a documentary.

The problem comes back to the idea of sheltering and protecting the public from unpleasant and unpalatable issues as they are controversial. Its an infantalisation of the people into a 'good versus bad' type narrative (for political reasons - and a 'hollywoodification' of the world) rather than a more accurate picture of the world and how things aren't that simplistic and that bad things do happen (and sometimes the US and rest of the west is responsible for them).

The US as somewhere which is strangely disconnected to the rest of the world and a large percentage of the public having very little idea of the world outside is a big factor in its inability to process (and accept) reality.

These issues and criticisms are all connected to hyper capitalisation in one way or another. There's lots of people with vested interests and the 'communism' thing thrown about by Trump in this context is a very very important one to keep your eyes on (whilst also noting here Trump's ironic admiration for certain elements within the Chinese State).

The world isn't a simple nor pleasant place.

I find whats been fascinating about the last year or so has been the levels of denialism that we've had. People trying to draw attention to issues and problems have been so frequently been put down as 'hysterical' or 'scaremongering'. It does seem that as a nation the UK has conditioned itself to be unable to see incoming threats and to take them seriously when appropriate. Just read MN. People have been saying for years that Trump had the potential to start a civil war and would do so if it suited him personally. Or how people said in early Feb last year covid would come to the UK and the crisis would be long lasting. Sure things haven't panned out as bad as they may have, but sensible moderate suggestions based on quantifible data and historical events were dismissed outright. Its almost as large parts of our society have become unable to cope with the mere idea of disaster / national crisis and that leaves us even more vulnerable to the consequences of those crises when they do actually happen and unable to cope with.

I find the whole subject utterly fascinating, but I also think that the principle of the truth being the fabric of liberal democracy and what its strength is. Even those who believe most in the system acknowledge its not an ideal system by any means but its the one thats better than the alternative. Its the best system we've got.

What we have to examine going forward in both the UK and US is just how liberal and democratic are countries are and ways in which this can be changed. I do think that the way the systems both work (two party states) are a HUGE part of the problem. And one that obviously the two main political parties in both countries have a vested interest in ignoring and dismissing.

My ultimate point is we should be having these deep and meaning conversations about what is liberal and democratic and we shouldn't be shying away from when it gets a bit difficult and hard. We shouldn't be saying its an all or nothing situation where things are either good or bad. We should be self critical, and in that self critism looks for ways to improve things and move forward. But it has to be truly self critical and not cherry picking the bits we approve of and pretending the bits we don't like don't exist. We have to be much more aware of the circumstances of the things at the bottom of the chain rather than turning a blind eye. We have to have the capacity to identify risks and harms. (And thats where poor representation of those who have experience of the bottom of the chain is problematic as we reduce our capacity to see harm). And ultimately diversity isn't just about identity its also about economics and I think thats the one thats providing hardest for us to come to terms with as societies with high levels of normalised inequality.

/ puts away the soap box.

RedToothBrush · 09/01/2021 11:56

Dershowitz makes perfect sense: O. J. Simpson, Jeffrey Epstein, Julian Assange and Harvey Weinstein all previous clients.

He's the obvious pick. And probably the most expensive one.

How's Trump paying?

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