Urgent Help I don't know what to do AIBU?

[NamechangedforAIBU]

I've name changed because my post is very outing and I don't want my SIL who is on here and my best 2 friends in the entire world who know my username on here to find out.
So what do I do, AIBU or is it ok?
Please be gentle with me, I've been awake all night not sure what to do and written a list of the for's and against and since cannot decide.
I just cannot ask my family or my work colleagues I'm working from home and feel a bit distant from them all the closeness at work has gone and we haven't seen each other in months. I really cannot bear asking my 2 best friends they won't judge me but it will make a difference to our friendship.
So I'm at the mercy of MN. Yes I know some will flame and some will be cruel and mean but there are people on here that will also be kind and helpful so hoping that one of those can help me out?
Thanks in advance

It will be in the deleted WhatsApp messages, get hold of his phone and lock yourself in the bathroom and then message the bitch and her DH

Just in case nobody's said it yet ... have you checkd for ADHD?

@NamechangedforAIBU
He is emotionally abusing you for not allowing you a fish slice

Its your cleaners fault obviously.

You look between 30 and 99 years old.

Book yourself into a spa for the weekend and leave them all to it.

You need one if these op.. that'll sort it all out.

This is about as funny as an episode of Mrs Brown's boys.

You should get a cleaner by the way.

Don’t forget to quarantine your cats, each in separate rooms.

Sending you a handhold

Oh forgot that old MN favourite:

You are a despicable mean person! How dare you breathe air someone else could be using!

WD40 usually works a treat for this sort of thing.

Great post OP

Write to your MP
Get a nanny
Have you tried batch freezing?
Your salary is a bit on the low side for London. Sorry.
You should try shopping in [insert over priced frumpy middle class clothing retailer here] the clothes wash sooo much better.

Well really!! Did you mean to be so rude!!😣

Well OP's obviously not coming back. Its been HOURS. All the time and effort I put into replying to this thread. Out there, living her life, dealing with her devastating, family-shattering problems. She should be ashamed of herself!