Lifeisnotaspectatorsport
Diminished status: yes, we're still in NATO and UNSC but those two organisations are respectively defensive rather than proactive and crippled by Russia and China vetoes. Since when have Russia and China been able to veto anything NATO does? They are neither Allies nor PfP nations. The NATO/Russia council was suspended in 2014 post Ukraine, and has met about 9 times since.
I would argue about NATO being defensive. I think the RAP and cyber programmes are as much proactive as anything else.
Don't kid yourself that we had much influence within the EU, even as one of the largest net contributors. We were always an outlier.
You may think the US is shaking its head, but if you talk to the Americans and explain that if the US had been asked to cede its sovereignty in NAFTA as much as we have had to in the EU, would they have done so; the answer is a resounding 'no'.
MrsMay had a choice - she could have refused the sequencing the EU wanted. There is nothing in the A50 procedures about how any withdrawal talks should proceed.
I know what the Five Eyes is; and useful is understating it. The only way the EU had access to that was via the UK.
We had an opt-out from ever closer union and were not without allies within the EU on that point. There have been buzzes around the bazaars in Brussels about a twin track EU for a long while (certainly for all the 13 years I lived in Brussels). Strange that the non EZ countries are now being pressured into accepting the Euro. Had we wanted that, we could have dropped into the EEA - we didn't. I think we are better as a third country, and not like Switzerland, who seem to be fighting off EU regulations fairly regularly at present.
Moving to the EU - well, depends on what basis you will be there. Certain professions will have no problems, as there are specific arrangements for them. I've done it twice now. Moving there was easier than leaving - we are still trying to disentangle ourselves from the last bits of banking and bureaucracy 12 months on from leaving.
As for bureaucracy and wastage come on. If our Parliament upped sticks every month and moved lock stock and barrel to Carlisle or Truro, there would be such an outcry about pollution, waste of money, expenses, etc etc; yet you all gloss over the caravan to Strasbourg every month. The EU is a gravy train for those who manage to clamber aboard it, and they do very nicely out of it thank you very much.