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To think Christmas bedding is a waste.

244 replies

inmyshoos · 24/11/2020 14:05

Aibu to think Christmas bedding is a waste of money and space? Let's face it its only going to be on for a few weeks max each each.
Dc want some and tbh I'm tempted given the shitty covid year we have had, tempted to go full on Santa's Grotto but the other bit of me thinks.... More clutter.... More money that could go on better things.... But what's better than sharing a bit of joy with the kids in a fairly joyless year Confused

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WitchesBritchesPumpkinPants · 25/11/2020 08:59

There are some incredibly sanctimonious & ridiculous posts in this thread.

I bet the people yapping on about them being 'a waste' buy takeaway &/or pay for Netflix etc.

Buy them/don't buy them, but FGS is the bitchiness really necessary??

notanothertakeaway · 25/11/2020 09:07

This single duvet cover is £8. If you use it every year for a few weeks, I think that's good value for money

www.studio.co.uk/shop/christmas/christmas-bedding-sets/personalised-fun-in-the-snow-duvet-set-single

MoiraNotRuby · 25/11/2020 09:12

I feel the same OP. DD has a kind of 'wolf in the snow' duvet set which is ok anytime but also sort of Christmassy.

I don't think the hassle outweighs the Christmassy effect. Better to spend that money on some fairy lights which instantly make the room scream Christmas and they are less work to store, don't need washing etc.

notafanoftheman · 25/11/2020 10:13

Politely raising an opposing viewpoint does not = bitchiness. HTH.

AfterSchoolWorry · 25/11/2020 10:16

Yanbu

And it's so UGLY as well, as are Christmas pyjamas.

Sparklingbrook · 25/11/2020 10:31

sanctimonious & ridiculous posts on MN? In AIBU? Never! Grin

OverTheRubicon · 25/11/2020 11:00

@WitchesBritchesPumpkinPants

There are some incredibly sanctimonious & ridiculous posts in this thread.

I bet the people yapping on about them being 'a waste' buy takeaway &/or pay for Netflix etc.

Buy them/don't buy them, but FGS is the bitchiness really necessary??

I don't think it's about the waste of money, it's about the massively increasing consumption and use of resources at Christmas.

I'm sure that lots of the people on here do their best to be responsible, teach our kids to recycle and care for the planet etc. But then Christmas is just becoming bigger and bigger - what used to be one tree, an advent calendar, a few presents on Christmas day, a big meal (or two) with family and a tin of quality street is now Christmas bedding and jumpers and pyjamas and elf on the shelf and fancy advent calendars full of plastic and Christmas Eve boxes and special breakfasts and generally more and more STUFF - and multiple people on here even seem to have multiple trees and change their 'theme' every few years.
The bedding itself may be cheap but the cotton it uses is highly resource and chemical heavy, if you're paying £8nor £12 for it then someone is being underpaid for their labour and the planet is paying for it too.

I love Christmas but it feels like it's all gone insane, and that's why special bedding seems wasteful.

Grenlei · 25/11/2020 11:09

We have Christmas bedding although really it's more just winter themed, it's brushed cotton and has patterns of snowflakes, fir trees etc, not ott. I've just put them on the beds now and they will stay to January (washed weekly during that time of course!)

BogRollBOGOF · 25/11/2020 11:11

@MsVestibule

If they're on the beds for a month a year (and you use them every year for years) it means your normal bedding would last 12% longer than usual, so not really a waste of money. They can be stored in the loft with the rest of the decorations, so not taking up too much space.

If you can afford it and the children really want it, go for it!

This.

I'm not bothered about doing it myself, but as long as it gets used over the years, there's no problem with it.

Grenlei · 25/11/2020 11:13

Meant to add ours is about 7-8 years old so we have had plenty of wear out of it!

LindaEllen · 25/11/2020 11:15

You could say the same for any decs that you put up. And considering you can get bedding quite cheaply, and use it year after year, I'm not sure the 'waste' is even worth working yourself up about.

squeakiness · 25/11/2020 11:20

We got ours off eBay so nice and cheap. We pack it away each year along with all the Christmas decor, Christmas jumpers and the like and keep it in the loft until the following year.

CounsellorTroi · 25/11/2020 11:42

I’ e got a Christmas fleecy throw that goes on one of the sofas. But no bedding.

BiddyPop · 25/11/2020 11:52

I suspect the kind of people who have Christmas bedding aren’t the kind of people who care about waste or their environmental impact.

Well your suspicions would be wrong then.
The bedding set we have is not a waste as it is reused year after year and saves on wear and tear of the other sets for that period - in reality, it just takes longer to get to the end of its life than some other sets have as they get used more regularly - but we have been using it for a few years now and will continue to while DD likes it (and will probably then recycle either through the family or charity shop).

The same with the 2nd plastic crockery set we bought toddler DD back in the day. She had 1 set, and it was constantly washed and used again, so I bought a 2nd coming up to Christmas which was a plate, small plate, bowl, mug and glass. They all got very well used while she was a toddler and meant I had a spare set to not need to wash up immediately after every use. But we did concentrate on the flowery set as the main set most of the year, so that did end up getting some bits broken and the rest completely faded/scratched etc so was dumped at some point (maybe when DD was about 4?). But the Santa set is still in reasonable repair, and none of the bits got broken, so it is still stored carefully with the decorations and the festively decorated mugs/cream jug/plate that we have gathered over the years and use for the 6 weeks or so. (Some of those were presents, 1 from a gluhwein at a market on a trip to visit family near Christmas over 15 years ago, and I bought the jug myself when scattering my DGM's ashes as it really reminded me of her).

In our household though, we use public transport and bicycles a lot, capture rainwater for the garden (and occasionally indoors - the deep freeze of 2010 meant water supplies were cut off due to leaks so it was very useful for buckets to throw down the toilet), I have my composter going since 1999 in the garden, we grow some of our own veg (I had an allotment for 5 years, but as other life pressures intervened, I now only grow in the garden but that is fairly productive despite its small space), have been buying AAA+ rated appliances since we bought our first house in 1999, and only replaced when they died (washing machine last year, microwave earlier this year), we buy plenty of things 2nd hand and recycle a lot either through the family or charity shops as they are grown out of or no longer useful to us, we use solar power to charge phones, have very efficient heating system and have greatly improved the insulation etc in this house since we got it...….

But we also like a bit of frivolity in our lives.

So on a year that DD had managed to put a hole in an old duvet shortly before Christmas, the new set we bought was a festive themed set.

Shoot me now for killing the planet.....

HmmSureJan · 25/11/2020 14:08

We have Christmas bedding. We've had it for eight years. It's Nordic style brushed cotton. We love it and I don't care what snobs on MN think of it Smile but then I have Father Christmas Bath mats too so...🎅🏻 🤷🏼‍♀️

Bluesheep8 · 25/11/2020 15:43

And it's so UGLY as well, as are Christmas pyjamas.

Don't forget Christmas jumpers! Confused

keeprocking · 25/11/2020 20:55

@TatianaBis

It’s a hell no from me.

I barely tolerate the current fad for Christmas jumpers. In my day they were just a joke.

I do have a Christmas tea towel and table cloth though.

No Christmas loo roll then?
GroundAlmonds · 25/11/2020 21:23

@AfterSchoolWorry

Yanbu

And it's so UGLY as well, as are Christmas pyjamas.

What is ugly? Every conceivable seasonal design of bedding? Confused

What a strange thing to say.

Pipandmum · 25/11/2020 21:31

I just gave my daughter a flannel (brushed cotton) duvet cover. It is wintry rather than Christmassy (penguins in snow). It's cosy and snuggly. It's just another duvet set that can be used for three months of the year.

speakout · 25/11/2020 21:36

Pipandmum

Lovely!
I am another one for winter duvet sets in soft brushed cotton.
We all have winter sets- I have scandic inspired, DD has polar bears, DS has a deer print. I have tow different sets for each bed so one can be in the wash.
We use the cosy sets through the winter months and switch to lighter cool cotton during the summer.
I love my winter duvet covers!

Holothane · 25/11/2020 21:41

Is it that lovely one with penguins from studio. I’m tempted myself

Stripesnomore · 25/11/2020 22:43

I have two sets - both brushed cotton with festive animals on them. I use them from October/November through to February. I have six sets of bedding in total. I don’t think that is particularly excessive.

Bluesheep8 · 26/11/2020 06:28

*What is ugly? Every conceivable seasonal design of bedding?

What a strange thing to say.*

I agreed with a pp that bedding with a Christmas design on it is ugly imo. But have to say I didn't even know it was a thing til I saw this thread.
I wasn't aware there are any other 'seasonal designs'...Confused

VivaMiltonKeynes · 26/11/2020 09:14

I love the implied mental superiority of the "I didn't know Christmas bedding was a thing" brigade .

To think Christmas bedding is a waste.
OverTheRubicon · 26/11/2020 11:05

@Stripesnomore

I have two sets - both brushed cotton with festive animals on them. I use them from October/November through to February. I have six sets of bedding in total. I don’t think that is particularly excessive.
Six sets of bedding is pretty unusual though. Most people wouldn't have that, not least because it presents a storage problem.