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Why are people putting up their Xmas decs so early this year?

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Poorpigletsrevenge · 15/11/2020 17:51

AIBU to wonder why people are putting up their Xmas decorations so early this year?

Is this spurred on by a Facebook movement or are people just randomly putting their trees up in mid November?

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orangecinnamon · 16/11/2020 10:15

@Fluffybutter

Dh says ours would be up next week if we weren’t meant to be moving soon ! I think it’s great if it helps to bring some much needed cheer . Not on fb anymore so I miss all the tree pics . Anyone care to indulge me ?
There is usually a lovely tree thread on the Christmas board !
kleanex · 16/11/2020 10:17

@Bwlch

Isn’t it well known that the Christians hi jacked an existing winter festival so it’s not originally a Christian event at all.

Christmas has always been a Christian event.

Are you new?😂
Janegrey333 · 16/11/2020 11:10

I prefer to leave it until much nearer the time - a week before, perhaps. Then it’s very minimal. I prefer an evergreen bough to a tree. Or I might just go for a very pared down Scandinavian look with some bark stars and dull silver gilt baubles hanging from hooks at the windows. The windows are 12 panel sash and case.

lazylinguist · 16/11/2020 11:14

Obviously people can do what they like, but for me putting up Christmas decorations in November would be the opposite of cheerful. I love Christmas. Dragging it out for weeks would make it feel very meh by the time Christmas actually arrived - how depressing! The tree would a) be dead because we have a real one and b) just feel like part of the normal furniture by Christmas.

edwinbear · 16/11/2020 11:18

Too early for me personally, but if it makes other people happy then good for them! My neighbours put their outdoor lights up this weekend, they always do a great job. I walked past as they were putting them up and said how much we enjoyed their lights every year, she smiled.

Bigger things to get worked up about.

Feedingthebirds1 · 16/11/2020 15:31

@VestaTilley

Because, frankly, they’re morons.

As religious literacy in this country declines, so too does the understanding of what Christmas is, what Advent is, and when both begin.

The same people will have it all down by Boxing Day, thereby spectacularly missing the point.

It is now generally accepted that Jesus was born in the autumn.

Shepherds were 'tending their flocks in the field' - the latest they would be out is October or very early November.

When a census was called, it was never in the winter because travel was too difficult.

A previously unknown slow moving comet appeared in the sky at about that time, and is believed to be the Star of Bethlehem. The Kings weren't kings at all, they were probably astronomers who believed that this was so significant (it was very bright and visible for many days - science can count back) that it had to be meaningful. The best understanding of the comet also suggests autumn.

Correlating Jesus' birth with other biblical events which can be dated also suggest that it was autumn. However not all scholars agree on this. Some argue (again giving reasons) that it was in the spring, and one or two that it was in June.

What is certain is that whenever it was, it was a day when we are most likely at work, or pushing a trolley round Tesco, or we're cleaning the loo. Not the day we're stuffing ourselves silly and trying to work out how to see all the parents and in laws without offending somebody. And I confess to being irritated watching Midnight Mass on tv and hearing the celebrant saying 'on this day Christ was born'. No he wasn't. And you know he wasn't. You know that many centuries ago the feast of Saturnalia was repurposed to represent the day Christ was born. So by all means say at Mass that this is the day we celebrate his birth, but don't tell us this is the day he was born.

lazylinguist · 16/11/2020 15:46

Because, frankly, they’re morons. As religious literacy in this country declines, so too does the understanding of what Christmas is, what Advent is, and when both begin.

I don't think that's really why though, is it? It's perfectly possible to know when it's actually nearly Christmas without giving a monkey's about Advent.

I'm a Christmas-loving, non-ignorant atheist. I put my tree up about 10 days before Christmas and I don't want it up any sooner. I know when Advent is, but I don't care!

MrsToothyBitch · 16/11/2020 15:52

I'm guessing because of lockdown this year for some cheer. Plus the general insta friendly trend of putting them up really early and copying Instagrammers paid to flog all things xmas as soon as Halloween is over because the sheep think it's a "thing" not a sales tactic.

I do have an xmas loving friend though with a dec 2nd due date. She went on mat leave last weekend and banged all her decs up to be ready and enjoy some xmas themed relaxing before the baby arrives!

Bluntness100 · 16/11/2020 15:56

Because, frankly, they’re morons.As religious literacy in this country declines, so too does the understanding of what Christmas is, what Advent is, and when both begin.The same people will have it all down by Boxing Day, thereby spectacularly missing the point

I think it’s quite embarrassing for you to be online calling people morons when fully demonstrating that today Christmas means different things to different people.

As the saying goes, it’s better to keep quiet and be thought a fool, rather than open your mouth and remove all doubt,

Bluntness100 · 16/11/2020 15:57

This should read

“I think it’s quite embarrassing for you to be online calling people morons when fully demonstrating a total lack of understanding that today Christmas means different things to different people”

Bibidy · 16/11/2020 16:26

May as well, November is a write off due to lockdown so may as well focus on the next thing. At least it cheers things up a little.

Doodlesplodge17 · 16/11/2020 17:32

Because this year has been a totally fucking shit one?!?
On a side note, my tree and shit is up because we have a 6 month old kitten and I want him to get over destroying everything by December 😂😂😂wishful thinking!

karenjkayjay · 16/11/2020 17:42

I would have thought it’s obvious, every one has had a difficult year so trying to cheer things up. Mine won’t be going up until the first week in Dec but I love seeing everyone else’s so early it’s brightens things up a bit and makes me think there’s things to look forward to 🙂

Tubs11 · 16/11/2020 17:43

I never put up decorations for Halloween but i went all out this year. I won't put the Christmas tree up until 1st week of Dec, feel like it would make me too sad if i put up now as i know we won't get to see our families this year. It also gives me something to look forward to.

MysweetAudrina · 16/11/2020 17:44

If I put mine up it would make me think it was nearly Christmas and then I would end up eating Christmas food for 2 months and then I would realise that I have to work for 5 more weeks and by the time Christmas actually arrived I would be a fat mess and dying to get over it. I have some lights up around the place but that is more of a winter thing and I do it every year. Have noticed a lot of my neighbours have put theirs up this weekend.

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 16/11/2020 17:45

Don't know. But I do wish someone could tell me how to hang outdoor Christmas lights (or link me to someone who can) without their looking a complete botched-up mess. In my own defence, my house does have awkward, low-pitched gables ...

ilovemygirls · 16/11/2020 17:49

Simply because it looks nice/pretty/cosy in our home with all the lights from the trees/decs. My dd’s birthday is soon, so it’s currently a birthday tree... pressies are wrapped & under the tree. 14 & smiling every time she sees them... it’s cute. If it makes you happy, why not?! If it doesn’t, don’t do it!

BiddyPop · 16/11/2020 17:52

We have not put anything up yet, but my normally Grinch-esque DH was talking about it in September this year!!

I am thinking about bringing the presents I have already gathered, my Christmas mugs, and maybe the outdoor lights (and maybe the cushion covers) back from storage next weekend and slowly start to decorate etc. The presents are so that I can start wrapping them, as most need to be posted this year, and I especially want the overseas ones to go on time, judging by other posters' experiences of delays in the worldwide mailing systems. (And mail to 1 destination can be snail-like at the best of times without Covid- to what is a fully modern developed economy, not a poor African or Asian country!!).

Tas1984 · 16/11/2020 17:53

I’m one of those annoying people who love Christmas and buy early too. I just enjoy the whole build up and this year is so rubbish I’m not even apologising for it 😁

Why are people putting up their Xmas decs so early this year?
Why are people putting up their Xmas decs so early this year?
Why are people putting up their Xmas decs so early this year?
iwishiwasonhol · 16/11/2020 18:03

doing mine on sunday ,cos ive just had my work rota and ive only got five days off untill xmas day

MercyBooth · 16/11/2020 18:03

I think some are doing it to send the message that they dont want Christmas fucked up with a lockdown.

Karenaki · 16/11/2020 18:04

I think it’s an effort to end 2020 by sheer force of willpower!
And a desperate attempt to cheer ourselves up

Rosebel · 16/11/2020 18:04

Some people put them up early every year. I would be fed up of them by Christmas but each to their own.
1st December is the earliest anything goes up in our house but at least I'm better than my parents. Never had anything up until the Saturday before, used to annoy me so much when I was younger.

nipperbat · 16/11/2020 18:06

Madness and far too long to wait esp for the young children. We will be doing ours 2 weeks before as usual - bah humbug !

EmpressoftheMundane · 16/11/2020 18:06

Stuck at home in lockdown and looking to make the best of it? 🤷🏻‍♀️

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