H is sulking because apparently I 'dont care about his kids' 
I have had a horrible week of no sleep, not sure why but I can't sleep at the moment. I am so tired.
It got to about 4pm today and I said I had to go and lie down. I asked him not to wake me.
His DC were coming round at around 5:30. He came upstairs at 6, woke me up by turning the light on and started asking me to come downstairs, telling me the kids were here, come say hello, spend time with us and so on...
I was so mad, I was finally asleep and now I was being pestered to get up so when he said 'the kids are here now' I snapped and just replied 'And? I don't care!' and turned the light of to go back to sleep.
I am usually very involved but I just needed this rest and no, I didn't care that the kids had turned up, they are well old enough to be told I'm not feeling great so was asleep (and couldn't give less of a shit if I go and say hello).
Apparently now I don't care about the kids, am rude for not saying hello, don't want to see them etc...