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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

What are your biggest turn offs?

222 replies

PepsiFan77 · 07/10/2020 21:34

Someone who is too argumentive.

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BetsyBigNose · 11/10/2020 19:43

My one piece of advice to my daughters, when looking for a partner, would always be to go for someone kind. So my main turnoff would be someone unkind. Bad manners and sulking after the age of about 6 make the list too!

LaVitaPuoEsserePiuBella · 11/10/2020 19:58

Fat, stubby fingers
Any kind of sportswear worn when not playing sport
Long hair
Bad teeth
Ignorance and lack of curiosity
Loafers worn without socks
Voted to Leave/ voted Tory
Doesn't vote
Not well travelled
Mansplainer - yawn
Uninterested in food
Doesn't listen/ask questions
Gamer / owns a lot of tech - double yawn
Rude about his mum/ex
Cracks jokes constantly
Most regional accents, esp Brummie or Essex

Plenty more 😖
Happy to stick with FWB scenarios with men who look and smell nice 😁

Fionasmammy · 11/10/2020 20:05

Bad hygiene, skinny, nipple hair, long or yellow nails, acne or bad skin.

Shutupyoutart · 11/10/2020 20:25

People who are Rude, materialistic, stuck up, pretentious,mean spirited. Someone said gropers absolutely agree i hate that! Oh and complaining about having "man flu". Oh guys that have their trousers hanging down by their arse so you can see almost all of their underwear.. Wtf pull your bloody pants up you look like a twat lol.

M0mmzee · 11/10/2020 20:41

My SIL and her husband!
All they do is talk about people in a derogatory way.

WERKITKAT · 11/10/2020 21:33

Women who:

Act like prison wardens.
Think the household is a workplace, and they’re the acting manager.
Judge other people based on their hobbies.
Claim they suffer from mental health, but will happily and openly bully and talk down their partners.

Are fat.

NotMiranda · 11/10/2020 21:41

In the short term, poor personal hygiene. Bad breath, sweaty and unwashed, clothes either grubby or with that left-too-long-wet-in-the-machine smell.

In the slightly longer term, meanness, lack of curiosity about the world, inability to see another person's point of view, lack of consideration.

WINDOLENE · 11/10/2020 22:08

The one's I attract, fat, shaved head (why why why), geezers who want to do anal and have BJs for ages like some porn star. Christ willy's are rank enough without it being shoved down your throat and then expect you to swallow or be really pleased they come all over your face.. Rank.

Frankola · 11/10/2020 22:19

Bad hygiene
No self respect
Someone who is bad with money
No sense of humour
Laziness
Mummys boy
Long fingernails
Gamer
Boring

WonderMoon · 11/10/2020 22:27

Bad manners
Arrogance
Laziness
Cheapskate
Long nails
Someone who can't laugh at themselves
Big ego
Overly muscley men

Sparklesocks · 11/10/2020 22:46

Laziness.
Inability to admit fault and learn from it.
Lack of self sufficiency or inability to perform basic tasks.
Intense gym obsessives who are doing push ups to work off their dinner mere seconds after finishing (sadly I’ve experienced this firsthand!!).

Tillygetsit · 11/10/2020 23:16

Too needy (that's my job)
Racist/ sexist/ homophobic
Disgusting toenails
Hairy ears/nostrils
Bad breath
BO. Not fresh sweat. Thats quite sexy.

Foghornleghorn99 · 11/10/2020 23:18

Laziness
Being into gaming
Bad personal hygiene
Liars
Cheats
Tight arses
People who brag and big headed Ness

... so basically my H

Babyg1995 · 11/10/2020 23:53

Heavy drinking
Hugely overweight
Bad breath
Small penis
Long nails
Anything dirty

yellowbananass · 11/10/2020 23:59

Overly critical

Pesimistic · 12/10/2020 04:00

Lazy men

toffeekiwi · 12/10/2020 05:14

Men.

gurteee · 12/10/2020 06:02

Any man that asks if you've come after a BJ. Of course I haven't you silly twat I'm going through the Hungry Horse menu from memory until this is over

😂😂😂😂😂

Everardscastle · 12/10/2020 06:06

No generosity of spirit

gurteee · 12/10/2020 06:34

Like being an obsessive REO Speedwagon fan or calling his penis Little Geoff.

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flaviaritt · 12/10/2020 08:30

Too many to mention. There are very few men (or women for that matter) I’d actually go near without their clothes on.

zingally · 12/10/2020 09:28

Heavy breathers, or nail biters/pickers. Both would be absolute deal-breakers for me.

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