What are your biggest turn offs?

[PepsiFan77]

Someone who is too argumentive.

Bad personal hygiene
Bad manners
That's on first encounters before the major stuff.

Personality wise
Cocky
Loud/arrogant/full of themselves
No sense of humour
Argumentative
Player
Talking far too much
Unhelpful with kids
Unhelpful around the house (no initiative)
No goals
Alcoholism or drug abuse
'Laddish' (hands down front of trousers etc)
Sexist
Boring
Unappreciative
Greedy with money

For looks/image etc
Fat/beer gut
Poor posture
Greasy hair
Manky teeth
Manky nails
Manky trainers
Tshirts with stupid phrases
3/4 shorts (or are they classed as trousers?)
Baggy/unfitting Jean's or dirty Jean's
BO
Long hair 🤮
Unkempt beards

Someone who actually believes in God.

I'm all for respecting traditions, I actually really appreciate the comfort it brings, especially in times of mourning. And I was raised in the religion, albeit not devoutly.

But I once fancied the pants off this man until he told me he totally believes in God. No joke.. I never realized until that moment that it is a huge turn off for me!

Not trying to offend anyone, just my personal view.

Not aimed at the poster above at all, but I just couldn’t be in a romantic relationship with someone who was a militant atheist and I’ve found it difficult to be friends with people who constantly say horrible things about anyone who has a faith and seem to use any excuse to religion bash and go on about “sky fairies”, “spaghetti monsters” “all organised religion should be illegal” etc. Me and DH are both devout and regular worshippers but prior to DH my ex was an atheist but very respectful and tolerant of all faiths or none. So I’m not against people who don’t have a faith at all, it’s just the ones who are very militant about their atheism and openly prejudiced towards anyone who has a faith that I struggle being around and know I couldn’t love romantically as I find intolerance and disrespect really upsetting. I feel similar about anyone who is bigoted in any way (racist, homophobic, misogynistic etc), I just struggle around prejudiced people in general.

Smoker
Drinker
Tattoos
Job shy
Messy
Unclean / untidy home
Jewellery (bar watch or simple wedding band I hate it on men)
Unintelligent
Loud
Rude
Arrogant
High number of past partners

Beards

Being unkind and money orientated

Smoking

I take it that this is about possible partners, but all of these could apply to everyone we meet.

My own personal hatred is someone who is a bully, be that a colleague, partner, MIL, child, sibling.

Dirty fingernails
Long fingernails
Beards
Bad hygiene
Worn out clothes
Dirty clothes
Lack of pride in appearance
Rudeness
Sexist
Unclean
Can't cook
Doesn't iron
Unruly eyebrows
Doesn't own a suit.

Anyone who gets fake teeth from Turkey. You know the ones I mean, a 'one size fits all' - that don't suit a good 95% of the people who get them-row of veneers that will cost thousands in upkeep/ eventual replacement but are such low quality.

Any man that asks if you've come after a BJ. Of course I haven't you silly twat I'm going through the Hungry Horse menu from memory until this is over

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Suits me! It's one less person I have to elbow out of the way

Not being open

Makes poor decisions or struggles to make decisions

Those weird three-quarter length combat trousers you sometimes see men in. Like too long shorts. And too short trousers. Also don’t like sloping shoulders, taking themselves too seriously and my biggest turn-off..... men in dressing gowns.

@bestestbrownies

Is he an ex now? 😆

@powerhouseofthecell

of course I haven't you silly twatI'm going through the Hungry Horse menu from memory until this is over
🤣🤣🤣

Bad hygiene, both personal and household, bad teeth.

Spitting
Bad teeth
Football shirt
Tattoos
Aggressive
Misogynistic
Racist
Homophobic
Lazy
Lacks ambition
Blames everyone else for bad choices
Poor hygiene
Rude to people in service roles
Hipster beard
Tight T-shirt straining over massive beer gut
Goes topless in public when it’s hot
Constant farting and belching
Greedy
Stingy
Bad with money
One small hoop earring like the eighties
T-shirts with ‘comedy’ slogans or random years like ‘1974’
Dress their toddlers in Ramones T-shirt’s
Aggressively partisan (left or right wing)

Forgot to add: Dirty house and car

Walking on the street with saggy grey tracksuit bottoms
Have their hand down front of their pants all the time

Bigotry. Hands down.

Pyjamas on men.
Slippers on men.
Men who talk about gyms/running/cycling.

Sulking
Big egos
Lacking emotional intelligence
Short
Submissive
Overly left wing
Cyclists

Someone who is mean (with money)

Drunks

Someone who is a noisy eater, anyone who talks with their mouth full or eating with their mouth open!

A man who is a fussy eater and won't try all types of food.

Show offs/materialistic people

Collars up on shirts!

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And of course anyone who is racist or sexist!