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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

What are your biggest turn offs?

222 replies

PepsiFan77 · 07/10/2020 21:34

Someone who is too argumentive.

OP posts:
PurpleDaisies · 07/10/2020 21:57

Someone who can’t drive (unless blind)

There are a lot more medical conditions that stop you from driving than blindness.

Spicegirls · 07/10/2020 21:58

Long fingernails and toenails
Tight with money
Lying
Misogyny

Smoking
Being into video gaming
Mummy's boy
Shoes with no socks
Not being able to drive without a good reason
Drinking too much
Any other type of addictive traits

CSIblonde · 07/10/2020 21:58

Mummy's boys
Dirty or long nails
Overgroomed (fake tan,overwhitened teeth & highlights)
Tattoos
Stingy
Racist
Not very bright(had to explain a really simple film plot once to a date.

bengalcat · 07/10/2020 22:00

Dog breath , fat , tattoos , misogynist .

imissthesouth · 07/10/2020 22:02

Bad teeth!

FlumpetCrumpet · 07/10/2020 22:02

Mansplaining
Claiming to have a 'psycho' ex (or worse, multiple psycho exes)
Poor hygiene
Being a strong supporter of any political party

Twattergy · 07/10/2020 22:03

Loud voice
Lack of self awareness
Intolerant
Small minded
Rude
Sweaty hands
Small hands
....realised I seem to be describing Donald Trump. And actually he is probably the eptiome of turn off for me....

AutumnleavesturntoGold · 07/10/2020 22:04

So, so many things... Including particular stance, shoes, mannerisms...

AutumnleavesturntoGold · 07/10/2020 22:05

Twattery are you saying you don't mind the orange tan then?

Sohardtochooseausername · 07/10/2020 22:06

Tory
“No drama please”
Lazy
Sexist
Possessive
Cheat
Bad teeth
T shirts with words or pictures on them
Ditto sweatshirts
Drinks too much
Too quiet
Too loud
Manspreading

Atla · 07/10/2020 22:06

In both friends and potential partners:
Bitchy/two-faced-ness
Bullying
Misogyny
Being a dick.

Also..... men wearing white socks and trousers that are not quite long enough. White trainers. Football hooligan type attitude/behaviour Grin

Sohardtochooseausername · 07/10/2020 22:06

@AutumnleavesturntoGold you can’t underestimate the power shoes have on a mans chances

Toilenstripes · 07/10/2020 22:07

Bad hygiene
Lack of intelligence and education
No sense of humour
Right wing view of the world

conduitoffortune · 07/10/2020 22:08

Waxed eyebrows
Delusions of grandeur
Overly loud voices
Incessant use of emojis
Fussy eaters

Pyewhacket · 07/10/2020 22:08

Hypocrisy
Intollerance
Purile name calling
Envy
Manipulation
Laziness

BadDucks · 07/10/2020 22:09

Greedy people - the types that load their plates with more than they could possibly need on their first trip up to the all you can eat buffet types. The ones who fill their boots at the family bbq with no consideration for making sure their is enough for everyone.

IceSkater · 07/10/2020 22:12

Bad breath, hairy hands, dirty fingernails

1Morewineplease · 07/10/2020 22:12

Those strange cuboid, blackened eyebrows
Tattoos
Ripped jeans/trousers
Stilettos
Fake/fancy painted /long plastic nails
Eating with mouth open
Spitting
Self aggrandisement
Snobbery

pineapplepalmtree · 07/10/2020 22:13

neediness

MondeoFan · 07/10/2020 22:14

Bad teeth
Big beer gut
Gold necklace
Gold bracelets
Football top
Scruffy trainers
Dirty nails
Swearing constantly
Being tight
Baggy jeans
Hoody with sleeves pushed up to elbows

spookmeout · 07/10/2020 22:17

Poor hygiene
Gamer
Manky teeth (don't mind crooked)
Penny pinching
Cocklodgers

StillCoughingandLaughing · 07/10/2020 22:18

Someone who won’t stick up for you/stand by you.

Anyone easily bored. I’m not here to play jester.

Someone never satisfied with what they’ve got. I’m all for ambition, but not people who can’t enjoy what they’ve got because they’re constantly wondering if something better is around the corner.

coldgraybrix · 07/10/2020 22:18

Mansplaining.
Ugly hands.
Pomposity.

HopeClearwater · 07/10/2020 22:20

Someone who expects show home levels of tidiness and cleanliness (sparked by another thread. Poor woman).

celan · 07/10/2020 22:21

Stingy

Jeans, trainers, sports clothes other than for playing sport.

T-shirts (sorry - I know this is a bit niche, but I only like men who wear proper clothes).

Any shoes other than brogues or, at a push, deck shoes.

Tattoos

Bad teeth.

No interest in the Arts.

Brexiteer

In favour of lockdown

(I could possibly cope with a Brexiteer, if they had very compelling reasons, but I couldn't cope with anyone in favour of lockdown).

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